Originally posted by Grampy BobbyAgreed Grampy Booby, it is more important for me to know who I am rather than trying to conform to what others want me to be.
"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because
your [b]character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely
what others think you are." ~John Wooden[/b]
I spent too many years and a lot on psychiatrists bills worrying about how other people saw me. I'm me, I'm happy and that is about all I could hope to ask for.
If you are happy with youreslf as a person then your reputation matters not a jot.
Originally posted by Grampy BobbyNah.
"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because
your [b]character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely
what others think you are." ~John Wooden[/b]
A job offer comes up requiring a hard hitting person. What will get your the job?
a. Your character which shows you as mild mannered, pleasant person
or
b. Your reputation as an evil "kill your grannie" to get the job done quickly, efficiently and at as little cost to the company as possible.
Originally posted by yo its meNone, that's why I added the disclaimer at the end. 🙂
What sort of reputation could be inclusive enough to describe someone?
For example, in these forums you have a reputation of being a very nice lady. In that sense, I believe your reputation is accurate, even if it is not complete.
Originally posted by PalynkaThat's a nice safe reputation I have there. It's proberly the same one I have IRL too, that's how I've heard people describe me.
None, that's why I added the disclaimer at the end. 🙂
For example, in these forums you have a reputation of being a very nice lady. In that sense, I believe your reputation is accurate, even if it is not complete.
So, can I be so nosey..what's your RL rep?
