Something about you wife punching Very Rusty in the mouth...back some time ago. That was not considered to be threatening at the time, so you probably still have it in your posts.
Check your posts it will all come back to you. Who is confrontational? You're the one asking me, when was the last time I punched someone in the face. I would call that instigating personally. I was pulling your chains a little with my answer, and you get irritated all of a sudden, or so it appears. 😉
EDIT: Oh, so I take it you were not looking for lessons?
Just check your posts. I am not angry even a little bit, that seems to be what you want to see, or have others see as far as I am concerned.
For a supposed Christian, you do not seem very Christian like at times. Perhaps we have found something mutual we see in each other, that might be a start.