Belief Wrestling vs. Certitude

@philokalia said
I think you would understand it better if you read his book on the topic because the word 'enemy' can be used in a way that is not shallow or so black & white -- which is how I expect to be able to use words when I am chatting with adults.

You should use the word "enemy" in as malleable and as wishy-washy a way as you see fit. I don't see people in [what I perceive as being] cults as being "enemies" per see. Speaking as an adult, I believe they need to be a threat to me or to those I am responsible for before they qualify as an "enemy".