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    31 Jul '17 16:52
    Originally posted by @kellyjay
    The 13 th Chapter of 1st Corth you can read about love. When shunning was done it was to get someone to repent least they stay wrapped up in sin.
    I know the reason. Most people would call uncondituonal live accepting people no matter what.
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    31 Jul '17 17:24
    Originally posted by @eladar
    But Christian love is nit the same thing as worldly love. Christian love could take rhe form of shunning.
    Shunning does more harm than good from my experience.
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    31 Jul '17 18:48
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    Shunning does more harm than good from my experience.
    Living in a continual staye of sin, nothing is worse.
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    31 Jul '17 19:021 edit
    Originally posted by @eladar
    I know the reason. Most people would call uncondituonal live accepting people no matter what.
    No that is not love, watching someone's life be destroyed and accepting it. Accept people yes, sin no.
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    31 Jul '17 19:04
    Originally posted by @kellyjay
    No that is not love, watching someone's life be destroyed and accepting it.
    So you disagree with Paul.
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    31 Jul '17 19:05
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    Shunning does more harm than good from my experience.
    So is accepting sin as normal behavior.
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    31 Jul '17 19:191 edit
    Originally posted by @kellyjay
    So is accepting sin as normal behavior.
    Unless you shun them for 'sin' that isn't sin, in my case I was shunned for not following the rules of the church, which aren't even in the Bible. According to them I was sinning by speaking to the girl before we were married.
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    31 Jul '17 19:20
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    Unless you shun them for 'sin' that isn't sin, in my case I was shunned for not following the rules of the church, which aren't even in the Bible.
    Then that church is not of God.
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    31 Jul '17 19:22
    Originally posted by @eladar
    Then that church is not of God.
    So do you think parents should shun their children for any reason?
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    31 Jul '17 19:28
    Originally posted by @eladar
    I don't think it does.

    I don't think it does between God and people either, as people define unconditional love.
    Do you have kids? Do you love them any less when they are naughty?
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    31 Jul '17 19:29
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    So do you think parents should shun their children for any reason?
    Of course, but for Biblical.
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    31 Jul '17 19:36
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    Unless you shun them for 'sin' that isn't sin, in my case I was shunned for not following the rules of the church, which aren't even in the Bible. According to them I was sinning by speaking to the girl before we were married.
    Was that psychological abuse?
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    31 Jul '17 19:501 edit
    Originally posted by @eladar
    Of course, but for Biblical.
    Give me a list of sins you would shun your child for.
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    31 Jul '17 19:58
    Originally posted by @dj2becker
    Give me a list of sins you would shun your child for.
    Adult child? How about shacking up? Homosexuality? Dabbling in prostitution. Being a thief?

    There are very many things that are not allowed.

    Of course a child at home gets more leeway, but adult children are on their own.
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    31 Jul '17 21:081 edit
    Originally posted by @eladar
    Adult child? How about shacking up? Homosexuality? Dabbling in prostitution. Being a thief?

    There are very many things that are not allowed.

    Of course a child at home gets more leeway, but adult children are on their own.
    How much leeway? Your child still under your care who's not an adult? You'll kick them to the curb?
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