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@Arkturos saidDo you really think I don’t realize you’re just trying to get me to say something to get banned although ok for others?
Maybe easier for some than others.
Considering the persistence in a certain kind of behavior, maybe it could be that Suzi really is doing the best that she can according to her own lights (despite outward appearances), and there might be some aspects of her behavior that she cannot help.
Maybe she has always been more of an outsider than you or I, or maybe she has ea ...[text shortened]... ipolar disorder (with a splash of alcohol) -- who knows? I might be on that path myself, eventually.
@mike69 saidIf by "No" you mean that she is still full of pride and judgment in a detrimental way -- well, yeah, maybe, but let's see how things go.
No
Let's give it a few days. Sometimes it takes people a while to digest new information or feedback.
Softly, softly, kindly, kindly.
As for the bit at the end, I'm already glitching now and then. Apologies all around in advance!
Maybe she calls me a hypocrite because sometimes perhaps she thinks I come off as more of a Christian than her. 😉
@Arkturos saidMaybe, you never know.
If by "No" you mean that she is still full of pride and judgment in a detrimental way -- well, yeah, maybe, but let's see how things go.
Let's give it a few days. Sometimes it takes people a while to digest new information or feedback.
Softly, softly, kindly, kindly.
As for the bit at the end, I'm already glitching now and then. Apologies all around in advance!
...[text shortened]... s me a hypocrite because sometimes perhaps she thinks I come off as more of a Christian than her. 😉
@mike69 saidSpeaking of which, I wish Christianity had also carried over the Jewish practice of turning over this and that phrase in the Scriptures to examine the various aspects of this or that ethical quandary. And sure, some Christians say that Scripture interprets itself, but I don't think they go as far as the Jews have done and still do.
Until there is no talk to walk to, is it better to let someone spew lies or confront and teach even if not the person spewing but someone listening in a difficult time or ready to accept salvation? The word isn’t a candy store to pick and choose what you like.
Sorry -- I might have drifted. In Christianity I don't think there's the concept of giving someone we dislike more rope etc. -- in fact I seem to remember that Christians should (in a friendly way, not a controlling one) sometimes point out to one another some of their missteps. Pretty sure that's in the NT and in the canonical four Gospels.
Something I dislike about Christianity as practiced by some sects in the USA is the confusion/conflation of the Word of God (meaning the grand Behold! of the Cosmos through the only slightly less abstract and undefinable Christ/Logos) and the presumably channeled or inspired words of God as written by a bunch of Jewish Earth guys way back when. Very shifty at times is that confusion/conflation, and to hell with the connivers! 😉
I dare anyone to wake up a slumbering Martian in the Tharsis Ridge catacombs and ask them if they speak Aramaic.
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@mike69 saidThat's fine. I would accept it.
Be carful she will have you banned!
Also, perhaps one possible unbearable regret I might have to endure is that I might have -- with approximately the best of intentions -- guided her toward a perhaps insufferably saintly and transcendent transformation -- for which I will not get even so much as a sou.
@Philokalia saidHave you yourself ever carried a baby to term?
Well, as an Orthodox Christian, I fully recognize that it is a life inside of the woman from the moment of conception.
@Philokalia saidRight, because Christianity is all about propagation, organically and conceptually.
If she does go to such an extreme stance as to be affirming of homosexual practice, then... I think we are no longer talking about Christianity, frankly. I am not saying that Christians need to be out there actively condemning homosxuals and trying to insert themselves in their business, and that Christians cannot support political movements that are libertarian or liberal ...[text shortened]... yes, indeed, it is not doctrinally feasible to affirm homosexuality from a Christian perspective...
@Philokalia saidA pleasant and well-mannered psycho is still a psycho.
But having said that, we are all sinners who require the grace of God.
@Arkturos saidWell, yes, it is your business, of course... But if we are to be discussing matters of sexuality, you can understand how people's personal lifestyles could become relevant, right.
Thank you, and I hope you understand that some lingering, hot bitterness about a certain matter is not directed at you personally.
That matter being that since my teenage years I have been attracted to and have appreciated the beauty of guys more than gals [not all of you! don't panic!], and I have lived under some rather oppressive and inhibiting cultural shadows since t ...[text shortened]... te it very much if Christians would keep their creepy noses of prurient imagination out of my pants.
@Arkturos saidYes... they are allowed to marry, and I believe it is the case that most monastics that go on to serve in regular parish communities put in time at monasteries until some of that fire has died out inside of them. At least, that is my impression.
If only the clergy would stop frisking the altar boys [which is probably less of a problem among the Orthodox, who (I gather) are allowed to marry].