Originally posted by divegeester
Look my friend, I'm not defining pacifism - you are. I'm neither defining what Buddhism teaches; you brought both concepts into the debate I'm just pointing out the flaws in both which are obvious.
I stand by my statement that a person who decides not to defend their own family is a coward, and if they choose to do that because of a religious (in ...[text shortened]... er people who would "act" as I've described above are imo cowards and they are idiotic.[/b]
Look my friend, I'm not defining pacifism - you are. I'm neither defining what Buddhism teaches; you brought both concepts into the debate I'm just pointing out the flaws in both which are obvious.
You are choosing to subscribe to a definition of a word which differs from that to which I subscribe. You appear to be respectful of pacifism according to one definition, but disdainful of it according to another. Both definitions are 'correct', depending upon which dictionary you refer to.
I am not trying to define buddhism. I am trying to point out to you that to dismiss anyone who follows a course of action that you do not understand as an 'idiot' or 'coward' betrays, in my opinion, either ignorance of the principles involved or naivete in the belief that you have a complete understanding of the issue.
What you perceive as 'obvious flaws' do not appear so to me.
I stand by my statement that a person who decides not to defend their own family is a coward, and if they choose to do that because of a religious (including Buddhist) instruction/teaching then in my opinion they are also idiots.
And I stand by my statement that your statement is naive and ignorant.
I do not generally describe people who's "views" differ from mine as idiots so stop trying to blow it out of proportion; however people who would "act" as I've described above are imo cowards and they are idiotic.
I don't know what you think I'm 'blowing out of proportion'. Are we not simply debating an issue? You have an opinion which you have stated clearly, I disagree with your opinion and have tried to explain to you why, which explanation you have rejected without, apparently, reasoned consideration. Instead you cleave to an emotive example which to your mind justifies violent response. I have agreed with you that a violent response might be likely in this situation, however I do not agree that this necessarily makes it right. You then resort again to the use of derogatory terms to describe a position differing from your own. You may feel that my use of the terms 'naive' and 'ignorant' are also derogatory, in which case I apologise. My intention in using these terms was merely to make you think about your position, not to create in you the animosity which they have evidently engendered.
You are, of course, entitled to view anybody as 'idiotic' or 'cowardly', but in doing so you are making an assumption that you understand their motivations. Can you not conceive that it may be possible that you do not actually understand them?