Originally posted by lucifershammerSelf-governance is on the other end of the privacy spectrum from the institution of marriage.
By your principle, every husband is obliged to share with you, a complete stranger, what he really thinks about his wife or his in-laws.
Correct?
Surely it would only make his family stronger.
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Originally posted by NemesioYou pity me ? ..... I don't believe a word you're saying.
I will not admit of anything that I do not believe to be true.
Your mental disintigration is tragic, Ivanhoe. I actually pity you.
Nemesio
"Your mental disintegration is tragic" ..... Thank God, I'm always in for a good laugh ... 😵
Originally posted by lucifershammerExcept that most families don't threaten to punish you if you don't join them.
By your principle, every husband is obliged to share with you, a complete stranger, what he really thinks about his wife or his in-laws.
Correct?
Surely it would only make his family stronger.
In Zambia under the previous president, the president used to go around bribing churches (quite openly) and the churches would queue up to receive bribes. Interestingly, the money which was theoretically donated to the churches was often misappropriated causing division in the given church.
My experience is that people are not nearly critical enough of both the leaders in churches and the systems. I guess it is similar to blind patriotism. It must be partly caused by a belief that any criticism of a system that you are involved in (whether church or government) also reflects badly on you as an individual.