26 Jun '09 13:15>
My aunt just died (well technically my great aunt but I was raised by my grandparents so ........) and her wake is Sunday. Our family is pretty much all Roman Catholics, though most aren't very devout (to say the least). It's pretty mandatory to approach the casket and expected procedure is to make the sign of the Cross at the side of the body. I invariably do this but ........................
I'm a non-dualist; I don't believe that the Cross has any special meaning. I feel like a phony when I do this but there are still quite a few of my relatives who are quite older (believe it or not) than me and I feel like I "owe" them this little gesture.
What do other people think? I realize it's harmless at worse in the Great Scheme of All Things, but I really don't want to do it but I really don't want to explain to my older relatives why I didn't (it's a fair possibility someone might ask why I didn't). I'm open to suggestions as long as they don't involve outright lying (no "I forgot" for example).
I'm a non-dualist; I don't believe that the Cross has any special meaning. I feel like a phony when I do this but there are still quite a few of my relatives who are quite older (believe it or not) than me and I feel like I "owe" them this little gesture.
What do other people think? I realize it's harmless at worse in the Great Scheme of All Things, but I really don't want to do it but I really don't want to explain to my older relatives why I didn't (it's a fair possibility someone might ask why I didn't). I'm open to suggestions as long as they don't involve outright lying (no "I forgot" for example).