Greatest Fear

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Whats your biggest fear(s)? Hell? Torture? Death? Taxes?

Mine is that my ex-girlfriend might commit suicide. She just doesn't see what an amazing person she is , and constantly puts herself down. She does the most unselfish, creative,nurturing things all the time .For me,her children and others in general. She stands up for what is just and keeps an ...[text shortened]... hat she gets better and finally realizes what a lost she would be to the world if she died. 🙁

Does she talk about committing suicide?

Originally posted by TerrierJack
You ARE your body. What you 'feel' as living is merely a group of constituent things that will all end. There is no 'my' awakening.

"Shariputra, all dharmas are empty of characteristics. They are not produced. Not destroyed, not defiled, not pure, and they neither increase nor diminish. Therefore, in emptiness there is no form, feeling, cognition, ...[text shortened]... ccumulating, no extinction, no way, and no understanding and no attaining." - Heart Sutra

Thanks for the whack on the head,noble friend🙂

May I have another?

Originally posted by galveston75
Does she talk about committing suicide?

Yes.

Unlike others who I have been able to 'joke' to or raise their spirits some other way, she is a tough nut to crack.

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Whats your biggest fear(s)? Hell? Torture? Death? Taxes?

Mine is that my ex-girlfriend might commit suicide. She just doesn't see what an amazing person she is , and constantly puts herself down. She does the most unselfish, creative,nurturing things all the time .For me,her children and others in general. She stands up for what is just and keeps an ...[text shortened]... hat she gets better and finally realizes what a lost she would be to the world if she died. 🙁

I have an irrational fear of spiders😳

Originally posted by clearlight
Ignorence.

Is bliss.

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Yes.

Unlike others who I have been able to 'joke' to or raise their spirits some other way, she is a tough nut to crack.

Hell is the place where you hate yourself and others. If you want to get out of hell you have to step to the next level - Hunger. We all feel the hunger (some more than others) and in many different ways. Some hunger for alcohol or drugs, some for certainty, some for praise, some for the future of their children. Find that hunger and feed it and grow it. Easier said than done but that is the most useful method. (and of course I am not telling you to do this for someone else - they can only do it.)

Originally posted by TerrierJack
Hell is the place where you hate yourself and others. If you want to get out of hell you have to step to the next level - Hunger. We all feel the hunger (some more than others) and in many different ways. Some hunger for alcohol or drugs, some for certainty, some for praise, some for the future of their children. Find that hunger and feed it and grow it. ...[text shortened]... method. (and of course I am not telling you to do this for someone else - they can only do it.)

Thank you again Tj. A simple post but definately food for thought.

I feel she makes progress at times but then comes crashing back down into her misery. I would give anything to see this fine woman get over her suicidal nature.

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Thank you again Tj. A simple post but definately food for thought.

I feel she makes progress at times but then comes crashing back down into her misery. I would give anything to see this fine woman get over her suicidal nature.

Give her Yourself herenow
and watch her dragging herself out of the trap that keeps her separated from this fresh herenow😵

Originally posted by black beetle
Give her Yourself herenow
and watch her dragging herself out of the trap that keeps her separated from this fresh herenow😵

I know what you mean . And she knows what you mean...most of the time. Its just the bits in between that are disturbing.
...I will persist. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel...

Originally posted by karoly aczel
I know what you mean . And she knows what you mean...most of the time. Its just the bits in between that are disturbing.
...I will persist. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel...

Of course you both know what I mean (and it's just her mind that it 's disturbing)
😵

Originally posted by black beetle
Of course you both know what I mean (and it's just her mind that it 's disturbing)
😵

I'll tell her that ,BlackBeetle. You know, this could be really it!.... Your comment might just put her over the edge of "non-feardom"(😵)

I will tell her tomorrow.
Now just before any of you posters think that BlackBeetle has done this. Oh no! This is not so! He may have just been the 'little nudge' to tip her over the bar,(so to speak), but then again Im getting ahead of myself.I wont be seeing her until tomorrow. (oops its already tomorrow,lol)

However I am somewhat confident of a good result here.

I have invested much energy into this particurlar individual and I am confident she will see the wisdom of BB's,(and the others'😉, wisdom in averting this drastic course of action.
For suicide is a very unspiritual act. If you can think of a better way to put it feel free.

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Could be on Earth,why not? seems like a nice enough planet.

"Heaven (the sky) and Earth shall pass away, but my words shall never pass away".

Originally posted by daniel58
"Heaven (the sky) and Earth shall pass away, but my words shall never pass away".

Heaven will pass away? Huh?
Why would I subscribe to the idea of heaven if its just going to pass away.

Originally posted by karoly aczel
Heaven will pass away? Huh?
Why would I subscribe to the idea of heaven if its just going to pass away.

How is this for a thought? Heaven is a place within the universe on a different dimesion of reality. When the universe ceases to exist the earth in our dimension will be long gone and so will heaven. Maybe intelligent existence can transcend all of this? Of course I am making it up as I go here, but wouldn't that be cool?

Originally posted by joe beyser
How is this for a thought? Heaven is a place within the universe on a different dimesion of reality. When the universe ceases to exist the earth in our dimension will be long gone and so will heaven. Maybe intelligent existence can transcend all of this? Of course I am making it up as I go here, but wouldn't that be cool?

Yes it would be cool,and keep on making it up. For creation is always a an uplifing act. (please dont start with me about 'creating war' or anything like that. That is just a misapropriation of the term 'creatiion'😉

Trancesdence is imminent. All life will feel the effects one way or another.😵