Originally posted by chinking58
Ok, so God is not unjust to not drag someone in who doesn't want to be in with Him. We have that part settled. My analogy was meant only to make that much of a point.
No, we don't have that part settled. The question what's "outside" is essential. When I agreed that it's okay to insist on house rules, it was under the assumption that "outside" is an acceptable alternative. If it isn't, that changes the whole situation. Let's say it's icy cold outside, the person in question doesn't have any other place to go, and you know he will freeze to death if he can't come in. I have to overstretch the analogy a bit here, because it doesn't seem likely that someone would still refuse to take their shoes off to be allowed in under those circumstances, but let's say that person has a religion which forbids to take off your shoes, or his socks stink so badly that he would rather die than inflict this stench on anybody. Whatever the reason, IMNSHO it would be very cruel to insist on your house rules and let the person die. If you are so concerned about your floor, maybe you could find plastic bags which he could wear over his shoes, or you might restrict his movements to a certain area. Or you could make a deal with him that he is allowed to come in with the shoes on, but has to clean your house in return. Now you might say I am really overstretching the analogy and missing your point again, and you may be right, but I did this to make another point: There are usually more alternatives than you first think about. If humans can come up with creative solutions both parts gain from, shouldn't god have that ability?
"As far as the 'other place'...
I don't believe there exists a village of places one might choose to hang out at if not with God. I think there is either with God, or in hell."
That's exactly why your analogy doesn't work, as I tried to explain above. Another problem with the analogy is that you have little influence on what's "outside", so it's not your fault if it's uncomfortable there. God, on the other hand, can make "outside" whatever he wants it to be (or you have to let go of the idea that he is omnipotent). So why doesn't he create an alternative?