Originally posted by EcstremeVenomHow do you intend to 'show' them the truth?
my audience intended was theists and my purpose was to show them the truth but i dont think this is happening.
By telling them they're all a bunch of loonies?
In my experience that doesn't really work very much. Better to actually accept a person's position, maybe try to understand their perspective, and have a good discussion with them about it ...
Originally posted by amannionin the back of everyone's mind, they know they are alone. they just refuse to believe it. NOBODY answers prayers; nobody ever will. they all know it, if you are familiar w/ sigmund freud, you know that people repress things they do not like.
How do you intend to 'show' them the truth?
By telling them they're all a bunch of loonies?
In my experience that doesn't really work very much. Better to actually accept a person's position, maybe try to understand their perspective, and have a good discussion with them about it ...
Originally posted by EcstremeVenomSo what?
in the back of everyone's mind, they know they are alone. they just refuse to believe it. NOBODY answers prayers; nobody ever will. they all know it, if you are familiar w/ sigmund freud, you know that people repress things they do not like.
What do you expect this to do?
Someone shouting out ... 'You are all wrong, you are all crazy' ... is hardly going to change anyone's mind. But then, why would you want to?
I'm an atheist, surrounded by believers. But I don't care. Why should I? I'm happy. They're happy. What else do we need?
Originally posted by amannioni believe that you can be happier and free w/o god. why do you care about what i am doing? is it any different than a preacher preaching his beliefs?
So what?
What do you expect this to do?
Someone shouting out ... 'You are all wrong, you are all crazy' ... is hardly going to change anyone's mind. But then, why would you want to?
I'm an atheist, surrounded by believers. But I don't care. Why should I? I'm happy. They're happy. What else do we need?
Originally posted by EcstremeVenomI don't really care at all, but the first post on this page suggested you were having a bit of a sook because no one was taking any notice of you.
i believe that you can be happier and free w/o god. why do you care about what i am doing? is it any different than a preacher preaching his beliefs?
If you want people to take notice start being a little more thoughtful.
As for being happier - you may be right. I'm pretty happy and I've been an atheist for 20 years. But many of my friends and family are christians and they're pretty happy too. Could they be happier? Maybe, but then I could probably be happier too.
Originally posted by amannionalso, even if they did not become happier; i'd rather accept the truth and know the truth rather than be happy.
I don't really care at all, but the first post on this page suggested you were having a bit of a sook because no one was taking any notice of you.
If you want people to take notice start being a little more thoughtful.
As for being happier - you may be right. I'm pretty happy and I've been an atheist for 20 years. But many of my friends and family are chr ...[text shortened]... re pretty happy too. Could they be happier? Maybe, but then I could probably be happier too.
Originally posted by EcstremeVenomYou're certain of your truth are you?
also, even if they did not become happier; i'd rather accept the truth and know the truth rather than be happy.
I'm guessing most religious people are quite certain of theirs too.
So who is right?
Neither, both?
I don't think it really matters in the end,as long as we show respect for all people's views.
Originally posted by amannionIn your experience does your tactic work? Not criticizing, just wondering. I've tried both methods and got nowhere with either.
How do you intend to 'show' them the truth?
By telling them they're all a bunch of loonies?
In my experience that doesn't really work very much. Better to actually accept a person's position, maybe try to understand their perspective, and have a good discussion with them about it ...
Originally posted by twhiteheadDoes it work to do what?
In your experience does your tactic work? Not criticizing, just wondering. I've tried both methods and got nowhere with either.
I'm not attempting to convert anyone - I just have this insatiable curiosity about how the world works, including what people think and why they think that way.
So, in the sense that it helps me to further my understanding - yes it works. The insults (of which I'm as guilty as anyone) and the proselytizing serve to do little, don't you think?
Originally posted by amannionWell EcstremeVenom says he became atheist as a result of this forum. I wonder if it was the insults or the proselytizing or raw logic that worked.
Does it work to do what?
I'm not attempting to convert anyone - I just have this insatiable curiosity about how the world works, including what people think and why they think that way.
So, in the sense that it helps me to further my understanding - yes it works. The insults (of which I'm as guilty as anyone) and the proselytizing serve to do little, don't you think?
Originally posted by twhiteheadWOW. i never ever, ever said that. don't put words like that in my mouth please. that would just be pathetic if that were true.
Well EcstremeVenom says he became atheist as a result of this forum. I wonder if it was the insults or the proselytizing or raw logic that worked.