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Originally posted by whodeyThe D&B story isn't a good example of an adulterous affair, either. He uses his power as King to take her by force. B can't be blamed for cheating on her husband. The whole thing was closer to a rape than an affair. In an affair, the [person who cheats] is necessarily at fault.
I do not think the story of David and Bathsheba is a poor example of divorce. After all, we are talking about couples getting married after being married to someone else. Granted, Bathsheba was then a widow after David killed her husband off, however, we are still talking about an adulterous affair that later remarried. Is the message then that if you kill ...[text shortened]... hrist we are condemned already because we are sinners and must then pay for our sins. John 3:17
Originally posted by BigDoggProblemI hate to break it to you but if you sin you are a sinner and are in the same boat with all sinners no matter their offense. There may be differing penalties to some degree but the ultimate penalty is death which is to be had by all sinners. Then enters Christ and his grace for those sinners. He offers grace to all and all are in the same boat in this regard no matter their offense. He does not offer condemnation but mercy. This is all I was trying to convey. If it offends you then so be it.
The D&B story isn't a good example of an adulterous affair, either. He uses his power as King to take her by force. B can't be blamed for cheating on her husband. The whole thing was closer to a rape than an affair. In an affair, the [person who cheats] is necessarily at fault.
The simple fact of the matter is that, in the OT times, there was no pe ...[text shortened]... arently the site doesn't allow the word that begins with 'c' and ends with 'heater'.
Originally posted by whodeyThat's nice. What does all that have to do with David & Bathsheba, or the topic of divorce?
I hate to break it to you but if you sin you are a sinner and are in the same boat with all sinners no matter their offense. There may be differing penalties to some degree but the ultimate penalty is death which is to be had by all sinners. Then enters Christ and his grace for those sinners. He offers grace to all and all are in the same boat in this rega ...[text shortened]... r condemnation but mercy. This is all I was trying to convey. If it offends you then so be it.
Originally posted by vistesdI didn't realize we were at odds on this subject. Even after rea-reading the posts, I can't see anything which could be taken in such a way as to cause pain or discomfort. But then again, I'm not the swiftest at sensing those types of things, either.
Look, Freaky, I will certainly not judge you on your divorce; from the way you write about it, I can only assume it was as heart- and gut-wrenching as mine. Nor will I make any judgement on others.
My point—and I will not debate it—is that I will not denigrate or diminish the subsequent precious jewel of my life by any second-guessing, or regrets or rec ...[text shortened]... honor it by calling it “adulterous.” Let’s leave it at that, and return to our usual arguments.
Originally posted by BigDoggProblemWhere did I say divorce was a sin? Granted, it is not part of Gods plan and therefore it is implied that sins were committed to lead to that action since it was not part of God's plan to begin with. For example, we as believers have a right to divorce if the other party has sex outside the marriage. It is merely an option open to us. It does not mean that the believer filing for a divorce sinned by doing so nor is a mandate to do so, rather, it is acknowledging that it takes two to tango and if you do not have an active participant to do so in a marriage then you are free to let them go. It is a judgement call. I was using the D&B story not to bash people who divorce and remarry, rather, to show that God can forgive such actions assuming that one or both parties seek such forgiveness. I was attempting to lift up individuals such as Visted rather than condemn. Perhaps you misinterpreted my intentions.😀
That's nice. What does all that have to do with David & Bathsheba, or the topic of divorce?
You still haven't sold me on the idea of divorce as a (biblical) sin, because God allowed it in the OT times. The bible's God has no tolerance for sin. If divorce were a sin, he'd never allow it.
I swear, watching christians use OT stories to defend their cherished NT philosophies is like watching someone pound a square peg into a round hole.
Originally posted by whodeyA dangerous assumption. Some people get married and find they're not as compatible as they thought. Cohabitation can introduce a level of friction not seen in the dating world (person X keeps a neat and orderly house, while person Y leaves it messy, etc.).
Where did I say divorce was a sin? Granted, it is not part of Gods plan and therefore it is implied that sins were committed to lead to that action since it was not part of God's plan to begin with.
Originally posted by vistesdDo these verses deal with merely a ritualistic adherence to the Law or a more personally involved, internal adherence?
All through the Torah!
In Judaism neither joy nor suffering are strictly “spiritualized.” Judaism does not separate spirit or soul and body. And joy is far more closely related to holiness than is suffering. The just (tzaddikim) are not expected to suffer. The "suffering servant" (from Isaiah) is not an ideal. Suffering happens—it is not sough ...[text shortened]... ur God, who has dealt wondrously with you. And my people shall never again be put to shame.
Originally posted by FreakyKBH“A city open, without walls, is one who has no restraint on his spirit.”
I didn't realize we were at odds on this subject. Even after rea-reading the posts, I can't see anything which could be taken in such a way as to cause pain or discomfort. But then again, I'm not the swiftest at sensing those types of things, either.
I apologize for anything I said which may have caused hurt; I certainly did not intend to do so. As y ...[text shortened]... yone. Perhaps I was too flippant in my representation of the subject. Again, my apologies.
Originally posted by whodeyI understood that, Whodey. But I have to say this—
Where did I say divorce was a sin? Granted, it is not part of Gods plan and therefore it is implied that sins were committed to lead to that action since it was not part of God's plan to begin with. For example, we as believers have a right to divorce if the other party has sex outside the marriage. It is merely an option open to us. It does not mean that ...[text shortened]... up individuals such as Visted rather than condemn. Perhaps you misinterpreted my intentions.😀
Originally posted by lucifershammerThe second. What in Judaism is called kavannah, which might be loosely translated as “intentionality.”
Do these verses deal with merely a ritualistic adherence to the Law or a more personally involved, internal adherence?
Originally posted by vistesdGood post.
“A city open, without walls, is one who has no restraint on his spirit.”
I opened myself up—and worse, did not preserve the walls of protection for my spouse—by giving myself as an example. That is my fault.
Yes, you were too flippant. I left the church (physically, not theologically—at the time or for that reason) because it was not the safe haven t ...[text shortened]... ed by my statement should examine themselves on the question, before they reactively rail at me.
FreakyKBH Knowing that life carries with it the promise of hope, whatever mistakes I have made are past and do not need to be harbringers of my future. Some legalistic moralists will insist that I, too, am 'living in sin,' with a 'scarlet letter,' because of my remarriage. With all due respect, screw them.double post
If they have the temerity to cross that road toward me, I can only hope they have the fortitude to withstand the Mack truck of my indignation meeting them half-way.[/b]
Originally posted by FreakyKBHWell said. Handshakes and toasts of l'chaim! all around!
Good post.
I suppose I could be characterized as principle-people in principle, but a people-people in practice. The doctrine that I hold to--- while intended for public consumption--- is not of a nature that requires me to force it down said public's throat. When called upon, I feel comfortable in providing a reasonably solid response backed up by th ...[text shortened]... gh Bible doctrine--- gave me that clear conscience; no one but me can take it away.