Originally posted by AThousandYoung
Those priests didn't have to be celibate to do the good they did. Priests should be allowed to have a normal sex life. I understand the profound significance of chastity, but lifelong chastity for so many people is asking too much. There aren't enough men with the capacity to remain chaste to fill out the ranks of priest so you get the scumbags to ...[text shortened]... t or you turn normal people into perverts due to the abnormal demands of the life of a priest.
It's not about celibacy. Look at the life first, and then think about who will respond to it.
1. Youth who are interested in the priesthood before their interest in women wakes up.
2. Young men who are interested in women but feel they have a higher calling and are willing to make the sacrifice.
3. Young men who aren't interested in women to begin with, and so to them there is no sacrifice.
The first group begins the process at a young, formative age, going to all-male schools that filter into the priesthood, thus spending crucial years away from females. While they may have been predisposed to be attracted to women, they were only exposed to males. While they may have been healthy and "normal" when they began seminary or feeder high school, that doesn't mean everyone else in that environment was. All-male boarding school with a special God-stamp on it? There's no doubt some were victimized there, and the God-stamp on those experiences could lead them to being victimizers themselves.
The second group is more likely to have a quiet mistress somewhere or to victimize nuns or adult female parishioners if they're unable to remain celibate.
The third group may have a male lover on the side, but if they were predisposed to children to begin with, then they'll be priestly predators.
Think about it: There are times in your life when you can't meet your needs by having sex with a consenting woman for whatever reason. Did it turn you into a child molester? If it didn't, then the issue isn't celibacy.
That said, I agree with those who call for an end to priestly celibacy. There's no reason a priest can't marry. My understanding is the rule was changed to that due to the laws of primogeniture and the impact on "church" property and its definitions.