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hope

noun
1. the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best

I seem to be losing my ability to hope (and see at night, but that is another thread).

I am down to - I hope I live 10 more years to see my youngest to her 25th birthday. All my kids will be "adults" then and I will have probably fulfilled my responsibility when I decided to become a parent.

Do you still hope? What for?

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I remember my mother used to say:

"When parents think they have done their part, they become grandparents."

There are always things to hope for - for yourself and others: a good life.

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Originally posted by mercurial
Do you still hope? What for?
that I can drag my chess rating up from the doldrums by way of some inspirational, insightful and perceptive chess. Oh well, I can akways hope.....

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Originally posted by lolof
I remember my mother used to say:

"When parents think they have done their part, they become grandparents."

There are always things to hope for - for yourself and others: a good life.
Luckily I am able to have a good life. I have some control of that.

I don't have to hope for that - I have that. And it's great - I am certainly not complaining.

I mean the specific act of "hoping". Seems kind of meaningless to me now for some reason.

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Originally posted by mercurial
Luckily I am able to have a good life. I have some control of that.

I don't have to hope for that - I have that. And it's great - I am certainly not complaining.

I mean the specific act of "hoping". Seems kind of meaningless to me now for some reason.
When you say you have no hope or reason for hope, it seems to me something else is missing in your life, apart from hope itself. Do you mean you have nothing to look forward to?

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haha, not sure doctor. maybe.

It's a fair question. :-)

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Originally posted by mercurial
Do you still hope? What for?
yes.

For a multitude of things personl, professional and gloabl 🙂

If you are really fighting with the demons maybe Frankl's book "Man's search for meaning" could be helpful

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Originally posted by mercurial
haha, not sure doctor. maybe.

It's a fair question. :-)
I hope it works out for you.

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haha stop - I am not fighting anything. All I said was I don't hope anymore. If I want something I strive to get it. Why bother hoping? What is the sense?

What I asked was what do you hope for? Not advice (although you are very nice to care :-).

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Now I am getting pity PMs.

Stop.

My life is great. I love my life. I have everything I want and I worked for it not hoped for it.

I asked what you hope for. That's all.

Enough, please let this hopeless thread die. I have learned my General Forum lesson trying to ask a real question instead of asking if anyone has seen my cat.

Have you seen my cat by the way?

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Originally posted by mercurial
Now I am getting pity PMs.

Stop.

My life is great. I love my life. I have everything I want and I worked for it not hoped for it.

I asked what you hope for. That's all.

Enough, please let this hopeless thread die. I have learned my General Forum lesson trying to ask a real question instead of asking if anyone has seen my cat.

Have you seen my cat by the way?
I did see a cat but it turned out it was one of ours. I hope you find yours.

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"Do you still hope? What for?"

It's the 'What for?' that has thrown them.

Do you mean 'What for?' as in what do you hope will happen.

or

Why do you hope? It's pointless, dreams never come true.

You should never give up hope. I hope I don't.

(I hope you find your cat.)

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What do you hope for?

Money? Fame? Health? Happiness? Peace of Mind? Higher chess rating?

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Originally posted by mercurial
Now I am getting pity PMs.

Stop.

My life is great. I love my life. I have everything I want and I worked for it not hoped for it.

I asked what you hope for. That's all.

Enough, please let this hopeless thread die. I have learned my General Forum lesson trying to ask a real question instead of asking if anyone has seen my cat.

Have you seen my cat by the way?
Pity, or concern? You may not realize it being new to this web site but behind most every keyboard here is a real human. Many have met in person either privately or at organized RHP meet-ups.

Of course a thread like this might worry many of us, I was organizing my thoughts for a PM to you when I read this post. This forum and how it has been for a time now is nothing like it used to be, and of course people are going to react to a thread like this as they'd react if they were talking with someone at a bar or on the bus.

Now get your chin off the ground, man! If I can be of any service, drop me another PM any time.

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Originally posted by mercurial
What do you hope for?

Money? Fame? Health? Happiness? Peace of Mind? Higher chess rating?
Health and happiness and a bright future for all my friends and families... including frienemies and enemies. I've given up on fame or fortune, but those things are not really important in the grand scheme of things.

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