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@suzianne said
I haven't been a victim for decades now. I stopped being a victim as soon as I started standing up for myself.

Then why all the self-victimising rhethoric about your favourite "gaslighting"? Your arguments hold as much water as Dive's.

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You can't be trusted to know what any of these terms mean, since you use ALL of them incorrectly. Nice confession thread.

@shallow-blue said
Then why all the self-victimising rhethoric about your favourite "gaslighting"? Your arguments hold as much water as Dive's.

If you wish to view me as a victim, I really wish you wouldn't.

Just because they repeatedly gaslight everyone about me, this doesn't make me a victim. This is my point, Sherlock.

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He only gets in my face first because he thinks I'm just an "inferior" woman. Doesn't excuse you in the least.

Don't you feel "victimized"?? I don't.

@suzianne said
If you wish to view me as a victim, I really wish you wouldn't.

Just because they repeatedly gaslight everyone about me, this doesn't make me a victim. This is my point, Sherlock.

I don't view you as a victim. I see that you play the victim by accusing everyone else of your favourite sin against you, "gaslighting". A word you toss about so liberally that you have deprived it of all meaning.

@suzianne said
He only gets in my face first because he thinks I'm just an "inferior" woman.

No, you are not a little victim gurlie. You merely pretend that I'm "gaslighting" you into being one -- quid non.

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Again: I could say much the same, mutatis mutandis, about you. Mirror images of toxicity. Even your mutual denials of being one another's mirror image show how equivalent you are.

@shallow-blue said
I don't view you as a victim. I see that you play the victim by accusing everyone else of your favourite sin against you, "gaslighting". A word you toss about so liberally that you have deprived it of all meaning.

Bingo

@shallow-blue said
Again: I could say much the same, mutatis mutandis, about you. Mirror images of toxicity. Even your mutual denials of being one another's mirror image show how equivalent you are.

You sell yourself short with this strained, rings-false 'above the fray' posture.