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Originally posted by adam warlockYeah, talking on the internet is much easier.
We all had butterflies in our stomach at our early days but he seems to exagerate. And yep I feel that because it is an internet puppy-love things are more easy for him.
And Bad wolf listen to Chaos Child. Please!
BTW: Bad wolf's replies aren't comming as often now. Do you think he's actually out?
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Originally posted by ChaosChildWhy are you judging me based on how I can communicate over the internet?
fair enough, net romances are easier. somewhat similar, in my mind, to holiday romances - no strings attached, no commitments, just a brief time of excitement, followed by either something more serious or, far more often, an end. and a beginning of something else ... although i sill can't get the point of virtual love, but that's a separate discussion. an - his mother probably got him to clean up the mess in his room or something similar. 😉
Real life is very different.
Originally posted by Bad wolfYou're not listening are you?
Why? 😕
When you're feeling stay at your palce doesn't help at all. You'll hear some sad music, see some sad movie... Get outside and enjoy yourself. I'll give you some help. if you see some girl that catches your eye while outside try to flirt with her for a little while. Is that doable?
Originally posted by Bad wolfYou have never said anything nasty towards me, I am however sick of you're whinging. If the only way you will stop (as it certainly appears that you don't want to get run over) is to get laid, listen carefully...
When was the last time I said such nasty comments towards you, or anyone else for that matter? 🙁
Please leave me alone if you're going to be like that.
As far as I can gather you are 17, not confidant and a bit of a pussy.
If it is talking to women that is holding you back then why don't you do what every right minded teenager does, steal some money from your parents(or use your own if you must), score some drugs(I would suggest ecstacy or speed to combat your lack of confidance and increase your verbal prowess) and go out on the town. Enjoy yourself, drink plenty of beer and repeat every weekend until you either hook up with the girl of your dreams or wind up on the psyche wing of your local hospital.
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Originally posted by adam warlockNaturally this would mean I would have to go into town, well, I did that yestarday with two friends of mine, we mosied (spelling?) around a few shops, we even stopped at peace gardens, dear Christ there wasn't a single girl I liked. And they know the town better than I do, where would I start? 🙁
You're not listening are you?
When you're feeling stay at your palce doesn't help at all. You'll hear some sad music, see some sad movie... Get outside and enjoy yourself. I'll give you some help. if you see some girl that catches your eye while outside try to flirt with her for a little while. Is that doable?
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Originally posted by cadwahBecause that is not the kind of person I am, I never will be.
You have never said anything nasty towards me, I am however sick of you're whinging. If the only way you will stop (as it certainly appears that you don't want to get run over) is to get laid, listen carefully...
As far as I can gather you are 17, not confidant and a bit of a pussy.
If it is talking to women that is holding you back then why don't you ...[text shortened]... er hook up with the girl of your dreams or wind up on the psyche wing of your local hospital.
I'm sorry that I am annoying you.
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Originally posted by Bad wolfThen flirt with girls you don't like like. Go into town everyday. Are you on your holydays? You have plenty of time to do it if you are. Don't be too picky: it's not like you're going to meat the girl you will marry you know?
Naturally this would mean I would have to go into town, well, I did that yestarday with two friends of mine, we mosied (spelling?) around a few shops, we even stopped at peace gardens, dear Christ there wasn't a single girl I liked. And they know the town better than I do, where would I start? 🙁
Originally posted by Bad wolfOkay, i havnt read this thread, but heres a way to get talking to a girl. Go out somewhere, if your old enough to go out drinking then this may help but it isnt neccessary.
Naturally this would mean I would have to go into town, well, I did that yestarday with two friends of mine, we mosied (spelling?) around a few shops, we even stopped at peace gardens, dear Christ there wasn't a single girl I liked. And they know the town better than I do, where would I start? 🙁
I call it the kamakaze, (which i cant spell-and im sure this isnt me and my mates unique idea but it works) you get a friend to do this with you, and take turns. One goes up to the girl and genuinely starts trying to talk to her, if he fails then he goes and you sly in and go "so, what line did he use on you then?" and when she tells you you take it from there, and blam you have a conversation going, may i suggest something like "yeah he's used that on me too" to get a laugh.
The more you do this the more confident you will get, being the khamakaze guy is hard but you'll get a go as both guys. Just dont pick a friend who is really good at pulling as you may never get to sly in with the line, which believe me, works to get a convo going.
Oh and be confident, but not arrogant, though it may help to have an inwardly arrogant attitude as long as it only shows as confidence and being sure of yourself. Body language is by far the most important thing when you talk to someone, the funniest, cleverest, wittiest, best looking person could lose out to someone giving off the right body langauge.
If you want to master this, maybe have a look at psychology stuff and learn how to create rapour, who knows it may help - iv never tried it, im gifted enough as it is ;P
Good luck!
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Originally posted by adam warlockThis will sound really pathetic: I have never being in a position where I have gone around town by myself for anything remotely like this, every single time I have being into town to get/look for something I have gone with friends/family/met up with friends later (excluding anything linked to eduction).
Then flirt with girls you don't like like. Go into town everyday. Are you on your holydays? You have plenty of time to do it if you are. Don't be too picky: it's not like you're going to meat the girl you will marry you know?
(edit: My point being that I couldn't go with friends everyday)
Plus, on the flirting side, I've never flirted with anyone I'm not already vaguely familiar with, like friends, people I know (not necessarily friends) or people that have introduced to me and we have talked a few times.
The idea of flirting with complete strangers, by myself, is very uncomfortable for me, at best.
Geez, I'm so hopeless.
🙁
Nordlys is right, joining some kind of group is probably my best option.
Originally posted by Bad wolfunless you're a schizophrenic, in which case you better be looking for a good shrink, not a woman; you should be exact same person in real life and the internet. that is why i make assumptions based on what you say here. what else can i use? i'm not even remotely keen to fly over in meet you in person ...
Why are you judging me based on how I can communicate over the internet?
Real life is very different.
but this is getting boring now. unless you stop whining and actually try to do something that was mentioned on 23 odd pages here, there's nothing more i can help you with.