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Originally posted by Very Rusty
You don't think Hitting children is not ABUSE? Obviousl you don't!

I believe it is and just as bad as any other abuse against children.

There is a time and a place for a spanking. My son hasn't needed to get one yet... and probably never will unless he really does something again and again and a good talking doesn't seem to help.

Here's a read for you, you don't need to agree... I don't expect you to agree.

http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/articles/2008/06/12/a-good-parents-dilemma-is-spanking-bad.html



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Originally posted by Very Rusty
I thought we had already established that fact long ago. 😉

I should see if Darvlay & HOH want to get together with me. 😉

Hey if you're having one I'll come just let me know when. Hell if I'll make a trip to the States the least I could do is head northeast eh?

Originally posted by Great Big Stees
You two getting together at BBQ # 3 seems a far fetched idea I guess.

The only reason VR wouldn't come is he's not who he claims to be. Last year he was digging for straws to get out of my invitation, and latched onto some small argument and ranted it was crazy I'd asked because I'm such a villainous MONSTER!~

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Originally posted by Great Big Stees
Hey if you're having one I'll come just let me know when. Hell if I'll make a trip to the States the least I could do is head northeast eh?

You've got a better chance of winning the lottery than VR wanting to actually meet anyone on this site.

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
The only reason VR wouldn't come is he's not who he claims to be. Last year he was digging for straws to get out of my invitation, and latched onto some small argument and ranted it was crazy I'd asked because I'm such a villainous MONSTER!~

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Come on Phlabs...be a man and bury the hatchet. Say you're sorry and you'd love to have him attend next years.

Originally posted by Phlabibit
There is a time and a place for a spanking. My son hasn't needed to get one yet... and probably never will unless he really does something again and again and a good talking doesn't seem to help.

Here's a read for you, you don't need to agree... I don't expect you to agree.

http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/articles/2008/06/12/a-good-parents-dilemma-is-spanking-bad.html



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When does spanking turn into abuse?

From my experiences and children I have taken in, spanking certainly leads to more abuse. Next it is a slap in face, and just builds up. You haven't seen the broken bones, bruises, and low self esteem children wind up with.

I am not even going to read what you sent. I sincerely believe that spanking/hitting is wrong. Nothing is going to change my mind on that.
Far as I am concerned & I am not alone on that it is ABUSE!!

Remember they use to think the world was flat too, and you would have been laughed at if you said different in that day and time.

ABUSE IS ABUSE....Hitting a child who can not protect themselves is pathetic.

Originally posted by Phlabibit
You've got a better chance of winning the lottery than VR wanting to actually meet anyone on this site.

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So no chance at all then 'cause I don't participate in lotteries. 🙁

Originally posted by Phlabibit
Really? So anything you've ever done makes you just as bad as anyone who's serving a life sentence in jail?

How can the prison system be sorted out to reflect your's and VR's views? Death penalties for shoplifting, or stiff fines for murder?

PS Are you that guy that actually CAN cast the first stone?

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My soul is as heavily burdened with sin as anyone else.

I let God and the legal system sort out which is worse.

Hardly, I wouldn't cast stones at a fellow sinner. I might shoot a few spit balls in their general direction, just for kicks.

Originally posted by ChessPraxis
My soul is as heavily burdened with sin as anyone else.

I let God and the legal system sort out which is worse.

Hardly, I wouldn't cast stones at a fellow sinner. I might shoot a few spit balls in their general direction, just for kicks.

MY BEST FRIEND LOST AN EYE TO A SPIT BALL!~

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
MY BEST FRIEND LOST AN EYE TO A SPIT BALL!~

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Did he ever find it? 🙁
It's all fun and games until someone loses an eye. :'(

Originally posted by Great Big Stees
Come on Phlabs...be a man and bury the hatchet. Say you're sorry and you'd love to have him attend next years.

As I told you, only ones I can say would be nice to meet is yourself, handy andy, huck, and I really can't think of anyone else that goes to that particular BBQ. ( I can't see huck attending every year)

Now there are lots of others I would like to meet in person on here. 19 in Metallica all those folks I would like to meet up with. Grampy Bobby comes to mind...I would actually like to spend several days with him, and there are many others on RHP I would love to meet.

Originally posted by Very Rusty
As I told you, only ones I can say would be nice to meet is yourself, handy andy, huck, and I really can't think of anyone else that goes to that particular BBQ. ( I can't see huck attending every year)

Now there are lots of others I would like to meet in person on here. 19 in Metallica all those folks I would like to meet up. Grampy Bobby comes to min ...[text shortened]... ly like to spend several days with him, and there are many others on RHP I would love to meet.

Plan a meet somewhere.

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
When does spanking turn into abuse?

From my experiences and children I have taken in, spanking certainly leads to more abuse. Next it is a slap in face, and just builds up. You haven't seen the broken bones, bruises, and low self esteem children wind up with.

I am not even going to read what you sent. I sincerely believe that spanking/hitting is wro ...[text shortened]... day and time.

ABUSE IS ABUSE....Hitting a child who can not protect themselves is pathetic.

Ever watch "Reefer Madness"? That's your view on patting a child on the bottom.

"Spankings! The gateway abuse to broken noses and jaws"!
"Spankings! Once you pop you can't stop until the child is dead"!

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
The only reason VR wouldn't come is he's not who he claims to be. Last year he was digging for straws to get out of my invitation, and latched onto some small argument and ranted it was crazy I'd asked because I'm such a villainous MONSTER!~

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Listen you who knows nothing. Who do I claim to be?

What argument are you talking about?

All I see you doing is blowing hot air.

I remember someone saying we should get VR to send us Lobsters.
I had half a mind to actually get an address and send a crate of lobsters, then decided why bother! I don't really care how most of you (that go to the BBQ) present yourself here anyways. That is not including everyone of course.

Originally posted by Very Rusty
Listen you who knows nothing. Who do I claim to be?

What argument are you talking about?

All I see you doing is blowing hot air.

I remember someone saying we should get VR to send us Lobsters.
I had half a mind to actually get an address and send a crate of lobsters, then decided why bother! I don't really care how most of you (that go to the BBQ) present yourself here anyways. That is not including everyone of course.

Um, besides me and perhaps duecer who do you hate so much?

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