Originally posted by Sicilian Smaugyes i agree i thought perhaps ther just might be one site, but that is too idealistic and ther is no site suitable so its one to one encouragement for now
Just as an example.. On ICC i have faced opponents who from the offset have sent abusive messages relating to raping my mother and killing my family. Bear in mind that these scumbags would only have seen my user name. They would not know from that my age gender or anything, For all they know or care i could have been a 10 year old girl. No child needs to encounter this sort of stuff.
Or?.. You could suggest as a site idea, that RHP creates a children account kind of thingie.
When creating such an account, you can only access the "children only forum" and play chess with other children your age. You (as RHP members and parents) can checkout what's happening in the children forums, and all is well.
Originally posted by CoconutNow thats a great idea, you have solved the next birthday present, not only will it be a chess bonus but will also help her become more it familiar, hurrah! thanks great idea
Anyone suggested simply getting her a chess computer game to play on?
edit: in fact i am not going to wait until june i will get her one now thanks the perfect solution, i am so pleased I asked the question you get a rec for that
In addition to school- and library-based chess clubs, there are also plenty of chess computer programs (I didn't read through all the posts, so apologies if this was already mentioned). In the US schools, students can order books and computer programs at a cheap price, but I don't know about your neck of the woods.
Originally posted by buffalobillI would guess that if she stayed away from the forums it would be fine. Although I think OTB might be better for a while as a teaching tool.
Play with her OTB to teach her the game. I think RHP is a fine place for kids, just tell her not to get involved in chat. I've never had an abusive message here, but then I don't play kids or newbies. If she gets that sort of stuff, then report it. Russ will sort it out.
Originally posted by buffalobillI was under the impression that children were not allowed on the site, but I can't find it mentioned in the tos, so I guess they must be allowed?
Play with her OTB to teach her the game. I think RHP is a fine place for kids, just tell her not to get involved in chat. I've never had an abusive message here, but then I don't play kids or newbies. If she gets that sort of stuff, then report it. Russ will sort it out.
Originally posted by stevetoddChildren under 13 are definitely not allowed to play on the site. It's because the site collects personal information from everyone when they register (name and email address) and Russ would be legally required to get written consent from the parents or guardians of every Under 13 year old who wished to join. It's just a lot easier to ban them from joining.
I was under the impression that children were not allowed on the site, but I can't find it mentioned in the tos, so I guess they must be allowed?
Originally posted by David TebbBut if her father plays here then it's not exactly difficult to get parental consent! I'm sure Russ would make an exception for an already paying members daughter. 😕
Children under 13 are definitely not allowed to play on the site. It's because the site collects personal information from everyone when they register (name and email address) and Russ would be legally required to get written consent from the parents or guardians of every Under 13 year old who wished to join. It's just a lot easier to ban them from joining.
Originally posted by David Tebbah I see thanks
Children under 13 are definitely not allowed to play on the site. It's because the site collects personal information from everyone when they register (name and email address) and Russ would be legally required to get written consent from the parents or guardians of every Under 13 year old who wished to join. It's just a lot easier to ban them from joining.