Can you guys still remember all the wonderful things you thought about your first love? My second question is can you remember the negatives? I think when you first fall in love you are almost blind. With experience in love you become more cautious and its harder to open your heart up to people. First love is very unique because you are so overwhelmed by the feeling itself you can see any flaws in your partner. Go and see your first love again and see if it's the same as before. I relate feelings with my first love that's my heart working but when I use my head I realize why we don't talk to each other anymore. The heart is very delicate so don't let others be reckless with yours and vice versa.
Be hard with your women but not harsh.
Women are killers, beautiful women are ruthless killers.
Don't let just anyone strip you of your innocence, it's best to keep the inner child for as long as possible. In truth, igonorance is bliss.
Originally posted by willatkinsWhen we broke up 9 years ago all I did was work work work till I decided to let go. My heart was broken and I hated her for that but despite the pain, hatred my love for her never faded. We are not in speaking terms and I do not know if I should keep it that way. There are times when I want to express how or what I feel. I am just afraid of the outcome of that action good or bad. You.... how do you go about it? Am I a hopeless romantic?:'(
Queen,
I do it all the time. So, you are not alone.
Originally posted by HentschelI was cautious when I first fell in love. In fact extra cautious. I was not afraid to express myself. I devoted all my time and made it my second priority next to God. I thought that that was sufficient and true enough that we lasted for four years.But I guess some good things never last.😀
Can you guys still remember all the wonderful things you thought about your first love? My second question is can you remember the negatives? I think when you first fall in love you are almost blind. With experience in love you become more cautious and its harder to open your heart up to people. First love is very unique because you are so overwhelmed ...[text shortened]... ce, it's best to keep the inner child for as long as possible. In truth, igonorance is bliss.
What I do not understand is that I just can't get over with it. I thought I let go of it years ago but up to this point in time my thoughts never fails to relive and ignite the feeling.Maybe because I was left hanging and that we parted ways with no valid reasons.I was made to believe that when you say forever then forever it will be. :'(