Originally posted by Bad wolfFirst - ask around. Try to find out anything about her that you can. Figure out what she's into, and then study up on a few of those topics. Then keep an eye on her. Wait until she's alone and her attention is on one of those things - like maybe she's looking at a poster of one of the bands she likes, or is reading a book for pleasure by her favorite author, or just had a conversation about the topic and then hung up the phone. Then walk up to her and talk to her about the topic e.g. she's looking at a poster for a band, say "are you into this band? I really like them."
A specific girl.
She'll know what you're doing because she'll have heard that you've been asking about her, but that's ok, because she'll be impressed by it.
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Originally posted by AThousandYoungI'm actually friends with her now, known her for about maybe three weeks; she was telling me that she really liked Radiohead just the other day.
First - ask around. Try to find out anything about her that you can. Figure out what she's into, and then study up on a few of those topics. Then keep an eye on her. Wait until she's alone and her attention is on one of those things - like maybe she's looking at a poster of one of the bands she likes, or is reading a book for pleasure by her favorite ...[text shortened]... that you've been asking about her, but that's ok, because she'll be impressed by it.
Problem is though that I never have much to say to her, and only really think of things to say when I'm able to bounce ideas off my friends.