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Originally posted by Bad wolf1. Well obviously you are a dork/nerd/geek/dweeb, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question on a chess site. That's ok, because we are the ones reading it.
Any advice. 😳
2. I would avoid mentioning chess or rhp until well after you have successfully "done" her and are willing to risk not ever "doing" her again.
3. You need to learn to live by the "1 out of 25" rule. For some people it is the "1 out of 10" rule, but we have already determined you are a nerd; so you must live by the "1 out of 25" rule. What this rule translates to is: that if you are only successful with 1 out of 25 girls that you approach, then that is still 1 more than you would have "scored" with, had you not mustered up the courage. So don't look at it as a life or death situation, look at it like work, "well i might as well get another one of my twenty-five out of the way" and sometimes you get lucky and don't have to strike out 24 times before you get "lucky".
4. If you are already "friends" with this girl, then you fall into the "how the hell do i get out of the friendship prison?" category and, well I'd rather leave that question up to the experts, such as shav. Although I might suggest getting her boozed up, then telling her that you are thinking of becoming gay, but want to have one last romp with a girl first, just to make sure. That has been known to work.
Originally posted by tmetzlerdon't listen to any of that, just talk to her about the things she likes and ask her out. DON'T GO THE CINEMA. stuff like this is easier when your 16, if you don't at least ask her out it will become harder and harder to ask the next girl you like to go out with you.
1. Well obviously you are a dork/nerd/geek/dweeb, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question on a chess site. That's ok, because we are the ones reading it.
2. I would avoid mentioning chess or rhp until well after you have successfully "done" her and are willing to risk not ever "doing" her again.
3. You need to learn to live by the "1 out of ...[text shortened]... romp with a girl first, just to make sure. That has been known to work.
Originally posted by tmetzler4. "This has been known to work" by who?
1. Well obviously you are a dork/nerd/geek/dweeb, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question on a chess site. That's ok, because we are the ones reading it.
2. I would avoid mentioning chess or rhp until well after you have successfully "done" her and are willing to risk not ever "doing" her again.
3. You need to learn to live by the "1 out of ...[text shortened]... romp with a girl first, just to make sure. That has been known to work.
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Originally posted by trevor33How does your advice differ from mine? I suggested asking her out, don't be afraid of it, get used to being rejected and don't let it bother you. Sounds pretty similar.
don't listen to any of that, just talk to her about the things she likes and ask her out. DON'T GO THE CINEMA. stuff like this is easier when your 16, if you don't at least ask her out it will become harder and harder to ask the next girl you like to go out with you.
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Originally posted by tmetzlerWell, maybe he actually wants a relationship? I know this is probably an idealistic expectation of most guys my age, but still you shouldn't encourage him...
1. Well obviously you are a dork/nerd/geek/dweeb, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question on a chess site. That's ok, because we are the ones reading it.
2. I would avoid mentioning chess or rhp until well after you have successfully "done" her and are willing to risk not ever "doing" her again.
3. You need to learn to live by the "1 out of romp with a girl first, just to make sure. That has been known to work.
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i don't really go along with that 1 in 25 stuff - i mean, it's sound, but you can save yourself some bother and just become attuned to when a girl is receptive to being asked out, or whatever. sometimes you just know 'ok, now's the moment to strike', and if you really are attuned you'll have got it right.
Originally posted by dfm65It's the "whatever" combined with "now's the moment to strike" that concerns me.
i don't really go along with that 1 in 25 stuff - i mean, it's sound, but you can save yourself some bother and just become attuned to when a girl is receptive to being asked out, or whatever. sometimes you just know 'ok, now's the moment to strike', and if you really are attuned you'll have got it right.
Originally posted by catfoodtima turbonegro gig?
Darvlay had a bad experience with seamen once.
it also sounds like a beginning of an educational story. "well, Darvlay had a bad experience with seamen once. it wasn't really anybody's fault, but there are things to consider while operating heavy machinery after dropping more acid than anyone has ever done."