Originally posted by abejnoodtalk to girls, and at least try to look like you weren't trying. take some risks. things will start to happen. -remember that they're in just as much panic as you are, and they fear failure maybe even more than you do. teenagers are like that, it's part of the job description.
Any tips?
P.S. Tips for a semi-nerd, that is.
oh, and self-esteem is the key. not your looks, your physical fitness or wealth. not that those would hurt your chances, but they're really quite unimportant. confidence in yourself will radiate like nothing else. be your own man, do your stuff.
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Go after a lot of girls. Girls love to compete for a guy. Be shallow while doing it; girls think that's hot; or rather, feel that that's hot. When you find a girl you like, pursue her and make her feel safe and secure as well as sexy.
Never, ever lose your confidence. You have to maintain your "face". Girls expect men to be emotionally strong. Don't be needy.
If you get desperate, hang out somewhere where hot girls hang out and shamelessly hit on them out loud. Try to make them blush and laugh. Once it gets out that you have the confidence to do that they'll come to you.
