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i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?

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Naaaah we all have days like that. Don't get yourself down.

This one always cheers me up: "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans" - John Lennon.

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Originally posted by alexstclaire
i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?
You probably need to study more. Forget about openings, you won't get to play this game more than once, and most likely you are already through the opening, so you can't do anything about that anymore. I would focus on the middle game and try to postpone the endgame as long as possible, although you should prepare for that, too, as it will inevitably come some day. Don't make random moves, think about what you want to achieve. Tactics are important, but you won't become an expert without long-term planning. I hope this helps. 😉

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Originally posted by alexstclaire
i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?
Generally speaking a lot of people feel like that sometime during their life-time. So you are not alone feeling like that. I occasionary feel that I'm not doing things adequately enough and that is very depressing as we all have a limited time to live. I naturally worry about all sorts of possible problem that may occur in doing anything, and that often gives me a hard time. I also often get paranoid feelings like there are theives around.


I think the aim of living in people can be very briefly categorised into four types:

1) Living for experiences, observation and gaining knowledges in order to synthesise something new or come up with lots of thoughts;
2) Living to solve immediate or long-term probelms in the world;
3) Living, just for living, aimless, wondering, possibly pleasure seeking;
4) Living mainly for pleasure-seeking, getting self-esteems from materials, never care about strangers or the world s/he is living in.

The point 1) and 2) are related and can occur together in synergy, 3) and 4) are dangerously close. But when things don't go well, even a highly motivated people with good aspects of 1)2) can suffer to go down to the level of 3) or even 4), because people need comfort now and again when tired, and also depression can affect anyone by one reason or another.

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Originally posted by alexstclaire
i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?
I work in a coffee shop, and yet I somehow manage to afford a huge apartment in Manhattan. I also have lots of funny, goodlooking friends who all live in the same building. Man, you should see some of the wacky mixups that happen sometimes.

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Originally posted by alexstclaire
i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?
You are over thinking it.

Life is a highway!
Just hop on and see where it takes you, and always drive 10 over the speed limit! That way, you see more people as you pass them by.

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Originally posted by mlprior
You are over thinking it.

Life is a highway!
Just hop on and see where it takes you, and always drive 10 over the speed limit! That way, you see more people as you pass them by.
Life is a highway
I wanna ride it all night long
If you're going my way
I wanna drive it all night long

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Originally posted by Nordlys
You probably need to study more. Forget about openings, you won't get to play this game more than once, and most likely you are already through the opening, so you can't do anything about that anymore. I would focus on the middle game and try to postpone the endgame as long as possible, although you should prepare for that, too, as it will inevitably come so ...[text shortened]... important, but you won't become an expert without long-term planning. I hope this helps. 😉
Buy yourself the best engine on the market and use that...

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Originally posted by kyue
Generally speaking a lot of people feel like that sometime during their life-time. So you are not alone feeling like that. I occasionary feel that I'm not doing things adequately enough and that is very depressing as we all have a limited time to live. I naturally worry about all sorts of possible problem that may occur in doing anything, and that often gives m ...[text shortened]... fort now and again when tired, and also depression can affect anyone by one reason or another.
5) living cuz you have to.

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Originally posted by mlprior
You are over thinking it.

Life is a highway!
Just hop on and see where it takes you, and always drive 10 over the speed limit! That way, you see more people as you pass them by.
i think life is better slow, nobody likes to rush through things.

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Originally posted by alexstclaire
i suck at life, does anybody else or am i pretty much just a freak of the world?
youre not the only freak; smart people are freaks cuz they are different. "God bless the freaks"

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Originally posted by EcstremeVenom
youre not the only freak; smart people are freaks cuz they are different. "God bless the freaks"
and then, some people are freaks because, well, they're just freaks...

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Originally posted by dfm65
and then, some people are freaks because, well, they're just freaks...
good point.

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Originally posted by rbmorris
I work in a coffee shop, and yet I somehow manage to afford a huge apartment in Manhattan. I also have lots of funny, goodlooking friends who all live in the same building. Man, you should see some of the wacky mixups that happen sometimes.
Coffee shops are good. They are like oasis in large cities, providing caffeines, warmth, and confort. I used work in a cafe and a few restaurant, and met lots of interesting people there. But I avoid going to Stxxbxxxx, 'cos a seemingly friendly stranger gave me a hard time by pickpocketting my purse from my jacket. Watch out for one like that.

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Not spooky.