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Originally posted by rmackenwell, that may be your experience of the christian youth, but it's not mine...
Your seriously telling me those who believe in God don't have sex before marriage?? Thats a load of crap. The bible isn't particularly followed by the younger generation, even the local churches are being scraped due to lack of followers.
How would you know if your partner is any good in the sack if you don't do a test drive first? Its the people who don't have sex before marriage (in our generation) that end up getting divorced the first.
EDIT: also, the two young twenties in this thread professing to be christians at least give the impression of being against premaritial sex. 😛
Originally posted by rmacken20. sure, i don't know the divorce rate yet. but are you seriously suggesting that every christian couple who don't have sex before they get married but end up divorced is due to...sex? if the ony reason they got divorced is due to sex...well, i, in my immaturity, would find that quite weird...
So how young are you then?
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Originally posted by DudefromaboveI have had a boyfriend persue another relationship while still with me (which is what you're doing - because if you weren't you wouldn't have told the 2nd girl). I have been through a lot of crappy experiences, but nothing ever hurt worse than that. I'd rather die than go through it again.
I just told a girl i liked her, trouble is im engaged what should i do
In marriage you promise faithfulness, and I'm sure you have talked about how devoted you are to your woman. It's a load of crap. You are tempted by someone whose age you don't even know? That really shows how well you have to know a woman to become attracted to her!
No offense, but the fact that you would consider this shows that you're selfish and completely inconsiderate of the woman who you want to marry's feelings. The last thing you need is to lead her on even more (by swearing before God that you'll remain faithful) by getting married. And if you really want to marry this girl like you say you do, you won't hurt her like this.
My advice, tell woman #1 you're not ready to commit as much as you had originally thought, and you need more time to become the perfect husband. She might take this hard, but will be thankful in the long run. Then, avoid woman #2. There's no sense in putting yourself in a dangerous situation where you might be tempted to do things.
And if this doesn't convince you, tell woman #1. See how hurt she is, and then you'll know even if you only like this other woman, it's incredibley morally wrong. Edit: Or watch The Last Kiss. There's the consequences of your actions.
