Originally posted by mokkoI desire more than love. Am I alone?
Some people, (I'd hope most people), would never have to understand what it's like dealing with healing your own broken heart while tending to the needs of a childs fragile emotions as well. Life isn't a flipping free for all game of ring around the rosie. People make mistakes, people don't always get what they deserve, the good guys don't always win and love ...[text shortened]... ith the same crap. It has no true meaning in healing.
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Originally posted by mokkoI agree...maybe you should be directing this at the little german kid who believes the nuclear family is the only kind of family 🙄
Some people, (I'd hope most people), would never have to understand what it's like dealing with healing your own broken heart while tending to the needs of a childs fragile emotions as well. Life isn't a flipping free for all game of ring around the rosie. People make mistakes, people don't always get what they deserve, the good guys don't always win and love ...[text shortened]... ith the same crap. It has no true meaning in healing.
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Originally posted by WheelyI think...no...I know many women who get into relationships before they're ready to be in them. I'm not single for my children. I'm single because It takes time to cleanse yourself of the emotional baggage and emotional damange that occurs when people seperate. I have nointentions of staying single for all eternity. Nor was it ever an actual decision to not have sex for so long. It's just turned out that way as I see no point in doing something just for the sake of doing it.
Apologies for trying to turn this into a serious thread but I had a couple of thoughts reading this post.
Putting it in context, I have a new tenant who I was talking to yesterday. She is forty something and her daughter is fifteen. Her daughter has a great relationship with her father. The mother also gets on well with the father but for various reason ...[text shortened]... erned that it sounds like you are not open to it any more which i think would be a shame.
I want my kids to learn that it's ok to love, it's ok to hurt and it's ok to be ready before you move on. I don't understand why this is hard to understand. Would you personally get into a relationship with someone who was still having emotional struggles? Who wasn't strong confident and suer of what they wanted and what they had to give?
In the course of raising my kids I've had relationships. My lord! I haven't been single for 11 years! But They occured when I was able to give of myself complete trust, honesty and love. Only then can my kids benefit from any relationship. Why would anybody ever settle for less?
Originally posted by mokkoUnderstood, appreciated and impressed.
I think...no...I know many women who get into relationships before they're ready to be in them. I'm not single for my children. I'm single because It takes time to cleanse yourself of the emotional baggage and emotional damange that occurs when people seperate. I have nointentions of staying single for all eternity. Nor was it ever an actual decision to not ha ...[text shortened]... en can my kids benefit from any relationship. Why would anybody ever settle for less?