27 Mar 20
@fmf saidI tried in the past it does not work. It does not go to moderators.
Use the feedback facility (scroll down) or get a subscriber to alert the particular posts that you don't like.
What we need is someone who will play with you so that you do not feel the need to bother people who have no interest in debating with you.
@eladar saidYou were advised to start a thread on this forum about these views of yours and the observations that arise from them because it seemed to belong here rather than on the General Forum:
He asked me to start a thread in this forum, so I did.
Eladar: See, that is where one of the major flaws in marriage lies, mixing of assets. Just live together with no obligations. Perhaps agree to split some bills while you live together, but no more than that. When you are ready to move on, move on.Kids? No different than what would happen with one night stands. Be responsible and do not have kids if she can't afford them.
FMF: My marriage is based on Christian principles as is my view on marriage. Your views on marriage seem about as un-Christian as one can be. and You should take your views on marriage to the Spirituality Forum and explain how your Christian beliefs underpin them, It would be interesting.
This is the thread topic I suggested you start here.
You are mixing up the general view of marriage in America with the specific.
Marriage in the US is a sham because nature and long term relationships on average do not go together.
My evidence?
Average length of marriage 8.2 years with 70 percent of divorces initiated by women.
Tilt at windmills all you like. Maybe there is another who enjoys doing what you do, but I do not. Maybe Dive or Suzi will play with you.
@eladar saidLast 24 hours I have "played" with you, The Gravedigger, Kewpie, WOLFE63, Very Rusty, rookie54, Hakima, divegeester, Suzianne, texasnurse, petewxyz, moonbus, Great Big Stees, Ponderable, Torunn, Sonhouse, DeepThought, Ghost of a Duke and others. "Nobody will play with" me? What are you on about
He is following me around like an annoying brat because nobody will play with him.
@eladar saidWhy is it that your views on marriage seem about as un-Christian as one can be and that you seem to go to extraordinary lengths to NOT explain how your Christian beliefs underpin those views?
You are mixing up the general view of marriage in America with the specific.Marriage in the US is a sham because nature and long term relationships on average do not go together.My evidence?Average length of marriage 8.2 years with 70 percent of divorces initiated by women.
@fmf saidWhat Christian principles are the above beliefs founded on?
Eladar: See, that is where one of the major flaws in marriage lies, mixing of assets. Just live together with no obligations. Perhaps agree to split some bills while you live together, but no more than that. When you are ready to move on, move on.Kids? No different than what would happen with one night stands. Be responsible and do not have kids if she can't afford them.
@eladar saidI am asking you about YOUR Christian principles in so far as they affect YOUR views on marriage? I am not especially interested in what non-Christian Americans believe or do. I am asking you because you claim to be a Christian.
How is American society Christian?
What is Christian?
These are issues way above your understanding, so I will not bother trying to explain it to you.