Originally posted by stevetodd
I don't need to sign up to an organisation to cut down, considering 2 years ago I was getting through over 125 units a week. I was in denial then, I no longer think I am an alcaholic, just a heavy drinker. I am still on the right track to get onto my target of 30 units a week by January.
Edit: But out of curiousity I did the 12 question test on their si ...[text shortened]... d, only scoring 3 yes's, not the 4 that indicates "you are probably in trouble with alcohol"
Alcoholics Anonymous (from the limited info I have) seems to be good for people who have reached a point of realisation that their life if being ruined by drink and there is no other way than complete sobriety - something most drinkers fear. What it seems more difficult to reach is what I call functioning Alcoholics, who are addicted, who do drink too much, who take risks (as in driving while drunk or unprotected sex or climbing on bridges) who damage there relationships etc with drink but still hold down a job and give the outward appearance of being OK. Quite a few people I've seen reassure themselves by saying something such as: " oh but I never have blackouts" or "I never get up in the morning and have a drink, no way - that would be a real alcholic" as if that one question alone was the litmus test of an alcoholic. I reckon the question of weather or not someone is an alcoholic is not quite so clear cut.
The best question I found was: "Is it costing you more than money?" And I suppose if it was costing you just the money plus a couple of chess games then perhaps that's not so serious...but relationships, health, friends, jobs, promotions or anything that you value in your life then it's worth taking notice.
I relate to drink problems by comparison with cigarettes...although not a smoker now I had many years of quitting, starting again, cutting down, just smoking cigars, just smoking when I'm out, only smoking other peoples and so on...but all roads returned to a pack a day. Total abstention was the only thing that worked for me in the long term. But I wouldn't dare to be prescriptive about what would be right for someone else...for cigarettes or drink or drugs...only to share a few thoughts (as above) and wish them good luck in finding what works for them.