Originally posted by Eladar
Sorry, I didn't know that "as an aside" meant, "this sounds like I'm making a comment about the topic of the thread, but I'm really not".
Oh dear.
It must be either that I was up too late last night or got up too early this morning and am grumpier than I'd realised but that "Sorry" doesn't read as being totally genuine in light of the tone of the rest of the sentence! I never even noticed the attempt at sarcasm last night!
The bulk of what I'd posted was about the importance of having a balanced and informed opinion. If you'd never heard the phrase "as an aside" before it seems quite clear that instead of what you say you thought it meant, you really have interpreted it as;
"what a good excuse to ignore a couple of hundred words of a reasonably well argued point which doesn't appear to support what I think and to latch onto a light-hearted remark stuck on at the end so that I can distract away from something I'm not sure how to argue and have a go at somebody I've never met or spoken to before- and as a bonus if he complains I can make some sort of sarcastic remark about not understanding the language I'm writing in!"
If english isn't your first language then, as I said before, no harm done- but you might want to practice your sarcasm at home before trying it out in public as I had thought I was dealing with an adult. You sound like a child making excuses- if you re-read what you wrote you'll find that you appear to be implying that it is somehow my fault that you were in ignorance and so wilfully misinterpreted what I'd written. If I am responsible for your interpretation skills, manners or apparent inability to say sorry without tagging on"but it's your fault anyway" then please let me apologise. And give me an explanation of how that happened so that I can use similar skills to help out.
Likewise I apologise if my difficult morning has clouded my judgement and you're not really trying to be sarcastic.
Why can't people just be nice?:'(