Originally posted by @lemon-lime
Maybe 'cause' isn't the right word to use for describing the relationship between mass and gravity. It does seem better to simply say that gravity is always found in the presence of mass, and mass is always found in the presence of gravity.
Gravity is obviously indispensable for causing mass to clump together to form stars and planets and astroids a ...[text shortened]... ing moving (time) because there is no gravity, or is there no gravity because nothing is moving?
"Gravity is obviously indispensable for causing mass to clump together to form stars and planets and astroids and interstellar shopping malls, and what have you... my point is you can't have one (gravity) without the other (mass)."
For a long time, physicists assumed that gravity must be a force, analogous to the strong and week atomic forces which hold atoms together; that is, people thought there must be something
pulling masses together, the way one feels a magnet pulling iron towards it. This
pullling is supposed to fill in a gap in our understanding of causality. Physicists are moving away from this thought-model. Physicists are coming round to the idea that there is no separate
pulling going on between masses, it's not a
third thing in addition to two masses which
causes them to move towards each other.
Think of the surface of a blanket. Now put a ball on the blanket. It makes a dent in the surface; but this 'making a dent' is not something
other than the ball on the blanket. Dents and ripples on the surface of the blanket are gravity. It's nothing in addition to the blanket or the ball. And no particle of the blanket is moving from one place to another. Now put another ball or other movable object on the blanket; the second ball changes the shape of the blanket locally, and therefore also has an 'effect' on other balls nearby on the blanket. That's the current model of gravity. But don't think that this 'effect' is something other than the ball on the blanket which
makes a dent in the blanket.
If two big balls collide, it 'causes' ripples across the blanket. But don't think this 'cause' of the rippling is something
separate to the blanket and the objects involved; it's a
property of objects on the blanket. That is the current model of gravity.
"You can't have the one without the other." Well, that's like saying you can't have water without wet. They aren't
two things (e.g., a man and his dog, and now one wants to know where is the leash which holds them together); there is a
property of
one thing. They are distinguishable (conceptually) but not separable (physically).
Now, the whole idea of gravitons is based on an analogy with electrons and photons, forms of energy which are packetized (which is to say, they come in discrete units). So it makes sense to ask, "Is there a smallest unit?" If it makes any sense to ask, "Is there a smallest dent in the fabric of space-time?" then there is case to be made for a smallest unit of gravity. Call it a "graviton" if you wish. But don't expect it to be something
other than the smallest unit of
mass (the smallest ball on the blanket).
A universe without time is a universe without change, a universe in which nothing happens.
There is no such thing as passive or active causality. Causality is not a force which makes things happen. Causality cannot be stronger or weaker. It's a conceptual relationship between phenomena.