Originally posted by Ragnorak
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[b]Oh, I'm not that bad, really. If someone tells me a really good reason why they can't play, then of course I'll not take the skull.
"Err, excuse me Mr Random internet stranger, would you mind terribly not timing me out in our game, as you see, err, sorry to be bothering you like this, but I just lost both hands in a knitting accident. I typ ...[text shortened]... ant to use their time up when they don't really need it, well, that's their risk.
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Ragnorak, you've got some good points there. But...
If someone can click his mouse to put up his vacation flag, or to add a post with his nose, and type it with his nose, he can make a move in my game with his nose. And if he's got such troubles that he can't think about my game, then I'm doing him a favour by giving him less games to think about. But that's besides the point: as someone else mentioned, I can't do anything about a vacation flag now, because it means that those games are protected.
I usually start a conversation with my opponents on my first move (unless they start one on their first move); you know, simple stuff like "How's the weather where you are, and is everything OK?" Sometimes I don't get any response, but I will often make further comments when something unusual or spectacular happens (like losing a queen, or a storm in their location). And if they go outside the set time limits, and they move in other games but not in mine, I'll sometimes PM them, just to ask why they don't move in my game.
I don't usually want to claim skulls, and don't usually do it unless I don't get a response from the player in question. In fact, I just checked all the skulled games in my "Skulled" folder, and this is what I saw:
Out of over 1,000 games, I've had 115 timed-out games: there were 68 Clan games (which I should claim); and 29 Tournament games (which are skulled automatically). That means I've only skulled 19 non-competitive games in 2 years.
You, however, have a much better time-out record than I have. From nearly 500 games, you've only won (claimed) 13 Clan timeouts, 23 Tourneys and 4 others, and you've only lost a handful of timed-out games in over 3 years. You can probably claim a couple more skulls in about 13 minutes, but you probably won't.
Yes, you're right, 35 days of vacation can be spent anyhow they like. My point was just that if they say they're "on vacation", they shouldn't be popping into the office to chat up the secretary and drink the coffee.