26 Oct '09 07:34>1 edit
Originally posted by epiphinehasI get what you are saying here but I cant help but feel that the earlier parts of your post contradict what you are saying here or are attempts to excuse not following your own words.
A big part of being a Christian is looking toward eternal things, of anticipating the eternal bliss of fellowship with the Lord of heaven and earth, as part of preparation for eternity. This goes hand in hand, though, with the practice of the radical agape of which you've spoken so eloquently; such being God's command. We love God because he fir a person who claims to be Christian would dilute the radicalness of Christ's agape.
I tend to agree with vistesd in that certain types of love are not rational, and even go further and claim that when they are rational then it is not the same love. You state that "We love God because he first loved us,.." and "...such being God's command" both of which imply conditional love or at least love based on a rational argument.
Do you love your enemy because you are commanded to by Christ or because you see that it is right, or do you simply feel love for him for no rational reason?
Is it possible that the love Christ talked of was so radical that he asked that you love everyone (even the least of his children) so much that you would be willing to give up everything (even your place in heaven) for them? I do not know, I am not a Bible scholar. What I do know is that I am yet to meet a single Christian who is willing to state that they would give up their place in heaven for the love of another. Invariably they fall back on the avoidance syndrome that you just demonstrated ie there is no point contemplating it as it is not on the table. But why do you refuse to address it? Why not simply admit that your love falls short of that standard and that you not believe such love is required of you?