Originally posted by Palynka
Can you be more specific in what you mean by "hope in life" or what that distinction is?
I'll try, but don't get too upset when I mangle it beyond repair.
People generally do not start a business venture without at least a reasonable expectation of some measure of success. I say "some measure" because it's not always necessarily the same standard. Perhaps one gets into it for the potential financial windfall while another starts up a career just to get someone else off his back.
I can think of no situation that would compel someone into the venture without that reasonable expectation. In fact, such a hopeless venture is called doomed, financial suicide.
A man marries a woman and possibly raises his family on hope: a reasonable expectation for a desired outcome. We all know the nearly infinite stupidities and brilliant insights that inform our decisions in these areas, but the principle remains true: we wouldn't do it if we thought there'd be nothing but heartache and loss as a result.
In youth, we wish to be loved whereas maturity brings us away from that clenched-fist mentality, to a position of gaining the most by giving as much away as possible. One child doesn't take away from a man's love for his wife, it increases the same. The atheist loves his wife, loves his child... but to what end? He dies, they die, game over. He is telling his child--- everyday--- this is it! Enjoy it while you can, because once it's over, it's over. Since he believes there is no soul, there is no perpetuation or extension, thus the need to get as much enjoyment (assuming enjoyment is the desired commodity) now before it's no longer available.
If the atheist feels this way, why would he bring another person into a world where the motto is 'Eat, drink, be merry; for tomorrow, we die,' since the atheist fails to follow that same dictum when he obviously makes sacrifices for his loved ones?