@ghost-of-a-duke saidI had "access" to your family?
Part of the trust I put in FMF was in giving him access to my family, via the broadcasts they listened to. This is why he should have asked for my consent before spoonerizing my name on live radio. You may think it silly, but it did cause confusion and embarrassment. It appeared I was on a show that couldn't even get my name right. - Why was it ok for FMF to do that? He says he found it funny. Does that make it ok then?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhat is this fumbling nonsense?
Yikes, caught in a lie. The second message was via RHP which you deleted without replying to. How did you read that last week?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhy didn't you contact me then?
This is why he should have asked for my consent before spoonerizing my name on live radio. You may think it silly, but it did cause confusion and embarrassment. It appeared I was on a show that couldn't even get my name right.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidIf you didn't find it funny, you should have said. You didn't need to go off and do the most malicious thing you could think of.
Why was it ok for FMF to do that? He says he found it funny. Does that make it ok then?
@ghost-of-a-duke saidNo. You said you heard the pseudonym used in show 3 and you contacted the radio station after show 4 having not contacted me about show 3.
Too late after the event.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidYou didn't contact me about the objection you had to the pseudonym.
I sent one message to you by email and the second was a PM on this site that you deleted without replying to. This is a factual statement and the reason I didn't send you any further messages.
-Removed-If I had been ripe with anger I would have reacted immediately. Surely?
But I did nothing at all, not one thing. I decided to rise above it. Knowing FMF was expecting some kind of reaction, I decided not to give him one. It was only when he did exactly the same thing the following week that I acted. - Hardly the actions of somebody fuelled by anger or vindictiveness. I simply wanted no more of my stories to be included on the show.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidWhat abject fabrication is this, all of a sudden, never mentioned once in the last three and a half years? You have brass balls, and no integrity in this matter whatsoever.
I sent one message to you by email and the second was a PM on this site that you deleted without replying to. This is a factual statement and the reason I didn't send you any further messages.
@ghost-of-a-duke saidAnd how did you act? Yes, in a stupendously scorched-earth vindictive way?
If I had been ripe with anger I would have reacted immediately. Surely?But I did nothing at all, not one thing. I decided to rise above it. Knowing FMF was expecting some kind of reaction, I decided not to give him one. It was only when he did exactly the same thing the following week that I acted.
In retaliation for what, for goodness sake?