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Wrong handbook(should be playbook instead).

I've heard FMF say "post as you see fit" at least a hundred times.

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@secondson said
If that was the title, then to that I would say yes it is, but because some view this "debate" forum as an argument forum where they aggressively criticize the poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.
some view this "debate" forum as an argument forum where they aggressively criticize the poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.

How would you characterize your comment here aimed at BigDoggProblem?


@secondson said
I've heard FMF say "post as you see fit" at least a hundred times.
Posting as we see fit in public does not make us immune from being taken to task for how or what we post. Perhaps you haven't understood what I said, even though - as you admit - you've heard it "at least a hundred times".

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@secondson said
If that was the title, then to that I would say yes it is, but because some view this "debate" forum as an argument forum where they aggressively criticize the poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.
Well, I try hard NOT to do that.

Even in this thread, which has gone "meta", I've tried to keep my criticism focused on the specific behavior, rather than making things personal.

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@fmf said
some view this "debate" forum as an argument forum where they aggressively criticize the poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.

How would you characterize your comment here aimed at BigDoggProblem?
You misinterpreted my intent. Deliberately I presume.

The character of my comment wasn't in any way "aimed" at anyone. I simply spoke to the content of the post made by BigDoggProblem.


@bigdoggproblem said
Well, I try hard NOT to do that.

Even in this thread, which has gone "meta", I've tried to keep my criticism focused on the specific behavior, rather than making things personal.
In my opinion I think you do a good job of NOT making it personal, even if and when I disagree with any particular assertion you make.

Clearly though, based on the posts of two, I have become the focus of their "personal" criticisms.

How can one debate with those that hold grudges and continually dredge up off topic comments about past, and present, biases.

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@secondson said
You misinterpreted my intent. Deliberately I presume.

The character of my comment wasn't in any way "aimed" at anyone. I simply spoke to the content of the post made by BigDoggProblem.
But you were criticizing the poster rather than keeping your comments and assertions on topic WHILE bellyaching about the poster criticizing another poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.

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@fmf said
But you were criticizing the poster rather than keeping your comments and assertions on topic WHILE bellyaching about the poster criticizing another poster rather than keeping their comments and assertions on topic.
Blabbering nonsense.

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@secondson said
In my opinion I think you do a good job of NOT making it personal, even if and when I disagree with any particular assertion you make.

Clearly though, based on the posts of two, I have become the focus of their "personal" criticisms.

How can one debate with those that hold grudges and continually dredge up off topic comments about past, and present, biases.
You don't have to debate with (or even respond to) such people. That is the easiest solution.

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@bigdoggproblem said
You don't have to debate with (or even respond to) such people. That is the easiest solution.
That is true, and good advice. I think I may be already drifting in that direction.


@secondson said
Blabbering nonsense.
Page three of the thread. Do you have any thoughts on the OP topic yet?


@secondson said
.How can one debate with those that hold grudges and continually dredge up off topic comments about past, and present, biases.
An awful lot of your posts, like the one above, seem to be all het-up and off-topic because of your apparent animosity towards certain posters. Do you simply have nothing to say about this thread's topic?