Originally posted by robbie carrobieIf not a generation or two or three, how long do you think it's going to take for India to change a deeply ingrained aspect of its culture and reduce its terrifically high rates of physical abuse of married women?
who is talking about a generation? are you saying that you need to wait a generation or two before you address the symptoms which have led to a marital breakdown, no? then once again you are slobbering. I would also like to add that i find your incessant questions tedious, very very tedious and I will be answering no more.
Originally posted by robbie carrobieDo you consider your moral stance on domestic violence within marriage in India is a clear and unequivocal one?
sorry your incessant questioning is tedious, please seek someone else to inflict yourself upon. I mean it, it really is very tedious. I have already answered your tedious question. Please shut up.
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Originally posted by robbie carrobieBut, as you are fully aware, that is not what I am saying.
There is not a single iota of evidence that a commitment to marriage leads to violence and suffering.
If a conservative, culturally reinforced notion of "commitment for life" in a marriage ~ and the 'deserved' stigma and ruin to follow if one strayed from it (a noxious retribution which it drags along in tow) ~ were to result in any women feeling unable to remove themselves from ongoing physical abuse (instead made them feel helpless and resigned to simply enduring the violence) then such a repressive outcome of that notion certainly should not to be extolled.
The low divorce rate disguises the fact that there are many millions of women who would seek divorce if their culture wasn't all set to punish them for the rest of their lives for doing so.
Originally posted by FMFWow you really don't know where to get off, do you. I have a user script that takes care of people that don't know where to get off, its called FMF Away. Adios.
Do you consider your moral stance on domestic violence within marriage in India is a clear and unequivocal one?
Originally posted by robbie carrobieHere is one article about divorce in India:
No you address what i have asked you three times, where is the evidence for your understanding? did you simply think that you could fabricate some kind of emotive codswallop and palm it off as valid? You seem to think that there is a link between low divorce in India and domestic violence, where is the evidence for it?
http://www.firstpost.com/living/the-ugly-truth-about-indian-divorce-why-the-new-cabinet-law-is-important-253387.html
The system is rigged against women, she can be legally raped, physically abused and NOBODY gives a damn. If she flee's an abusive husband and is actually granted a divorce, any demand by the courts for alimony, child support and so forth is just ignored by the ex husband.
Robbie, I think you see the low divorce rate in India as somehow rationalizing your own religious beliefs, family values must be wonderful in India so MY religion holds the same values.
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Originally posted by sonhouseOn the contrary i have provided a number of reasons why divorce is low in India and yet not you or anyone else has manged to make a single reference to those reasons. I have concluded that its because no one is interested in reason.
Here is one article about divorce in India:
http://www.firstpost.com/living/the-ugly-truth-about-indian-divorce-why-the-new-cabinet-law-is-important-253387.html
The system is rigged against women, she can be legally raped, physically abused and NOBODY gives a damn. If she flee's an abusive husband and is actually granted a divorce, any demand by the c ...[text shortened]... eligious beliefs, family values must be wonderful in India so MY religion holds the same values.
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Originally posted by robbie carrobieCan you go over some of those reasons again? I didn't read them yet.
On the contrary i have provided a number of reasons why divorce is low in India and yet not you or anyone else has manged to make a single reference to those reasons. I have concluded that its because no one is interested in reason.
You don't think the legal system is rigged against women and further that has nothing to do with the low divorce rate there?
Originally posted by sonhouseNo i think the divorce rate is low because of social and cultural reasons. A commitment to marriage for life being one of those values.
Can you go over some of those reasons again? I didn't read them yet.
You don't think the legal system is rigged against women and further that has nothing to do with the low divorce rate there?
Originally posted by robbie carrobieIndian women are physically abused in appalling numbers, also for social and cultural reasons. I would welcome a higher divorce rate if it was an indication that more and more of these tragic victims were breaking free from violent wife-beating men. Would you?
No i think the divorce rate is low because of social and cultural reasons. A commitment to marriage for life being one of those values.
Originally posted by robbie carrobieA "legal system [that] is rigged against women" is one of the "social and cultural reasons" for the low divorce rate in India.
No i think the divorce rate is low because of social and cultural reasons. A commitment to marriage for life being one of those values.