Originally posted by @fmfUnlike you, I direct my anger to whoever causes it. It wasn't anyone else's business, except yours and mine. You might like "playing to the crowd", but I do not. You are a consummate "user" of people. Just this fleeting acquaintance I have with you on this forum is enough to make me feel like I need a shower.
I considered it to be absolutely ludicrous. I felt no obligation to keep your ludicrous message or the fact that you sent it to me secret.
Originally posted by @suzianneIf you send me any more ridiculous PMs like that, I will most likely show them to my RHP friends. If I were ever to send you a ridiculous PM of that ilk, do with it what you will.
Unlike you, I direct my anger to whoever causes it. It wasn't anyone else's business, except yours and mine. You might like "playing to the crowd", but I do not. You are a consummate "user" of people. Just this fleeting acquaintance I have with you on this forum is enough to make me feel like I need a shower.
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Originally posted by @fmfThat's rich coming from the guy who was masquerading as 'John Booth' and 'FMF'.
Like I said, you were not smart enough to disguise it.
Several people guessed, easily. You were called on it. You admitted it.
So we were right.
You seem to want to take some sort of credit for admitting it when in fact you were not able to keep it a secret.
You pretended to be a different poster talking to me and I said 'You are Fetchmyjunk', o ...[text shortened]... that effect. Other people did the same.
Later, cornered, you had no choice but to admit it.
Originally posted by @dj2beckerHere's a discussion about that: Thread 174151
That's rich coming from the guy who was masquerading as 'John Booth' and 'FMF'.
Originally posted by @fmfIf I had done that, that's all I would have been doing for months.
Report any harassment you experience to the website. Draw their attention to the post or posts where you claim it has occurred.
Besides, everyone knows the Brits never listen to women.
There is zero reason why I would set before myself an uphill battle against your harassment. The default behavior should be no harassment. Your behavior was what was out of normal, not mine. The onus should have been on you to stop it, not on me to spend all day every day whining about it.
Do you remember a user here in the early days of RHP called Bowmann? He was a sexual predator of many women here and was actively blackmailing some of them. He was never kicked off the site, despite many women complaining about him to management. He eventually left of his own accord, but only because a few convinced him he was being targeted and was about to be exposed. But he was never, ever kicked off the site because no one believed the women. So much for reporting anything to management.
Yet again, your canned response shows little understanding or even remorse. Probably because that would be an admission. Those who "play to the crowd" must always keep the act up.
Originally posted by @fmfThen stop complaining about my public posts expressing the outrage I would normally only express privately, where it belongs.
If you send me any more ridiculous PMs like that, I will most likely show them to my RHP friends. If I were ever to send you a ridiculous PM of that ilk, do with it what you will.
And I've already taken the necessary steps to prevent the pollution of my inbox by PMs from you. But you knew that. "Playing to the crowd", indeed.
Originally posted by @suzianneIf I had done that, that's all I would have been doing for months.
Besides, everyone knows the Brits never listen to women.
There is zero reason why I would set before myself an uphill battle against your harassment. The default behavior should be no harassment. Your behavior was what was out of normal, not mine. The onus should have been on you to stop it, not on me to spend all day every day whining about it.
Do you remember a user here in the early days of RHP called Bowmann? He was a sexual predator of many women here and was actively blackmailing some of them. He was never kicked off the site, despite many women complaining about him to management. He eventually left of his own accord, but only because a few convinced him he was being targeted and was about to be exposed. But he was never, ever kicked off the site because no one believed the women. So much for reporting anything to management.
Yet again, your canned response shows little understanding or even remorse. Probably because that would be an admission. Those who "play to the crowd" must always keep the act up.
I haven't witnessed you being subjected to any harassment worth reporting to the website. Maybe it was deleted before I saw it.
No, I don't remember the sexual predator Bowmann.
As for anything I have ever said to you over however many years it's been, I stand by every word. I have no need to feel "remorse".
If you can dig up a post of mine that constituted 'harassment' to your way of thinking and that ought to trigger "remorse" on my part, go for it.
If I am embarassed by what I said, I will say so.
I suggest you stick to posts of mine you reported to the web site but they declined to delete them.
Originally posted by @suzianneWhen I say I support you exercising your right to call things how you see them, I do mean it. My only complaint is that you would be a more interesting poster if you posted more on-topic stuff and spent less time with the angry screeds which are water off a duck's back to me.
Then stop complaining about my public posts expressing the outrage I would normally only express privately, where it belongs.
Originally posted by @fmf(a) Right, try to follow along. I was talking about harassment directly from you. No wonder you claim not to have "witnessed" it. Gotta keep the act up, after all.
(a)I haven't witnessed you being subjected to any harassment worth reporting to the website. Maybe it was deleted before I saw it.
(b)I suggest you stick to posts of mine you reported to the web site but they declined to delete them.
(b) You can suggest whatever you want to me, and I will continue to laugh in your face at your "suggestions". Does anyone you know actually do any of the things you "suggest" to them? Save your "suggestions" for them.
Originally posted by @suzianneI think you are mischaracterizing my posts. I don't and I haven't harassed you. You are free to think I have. But I disagree.
(a) Right, try to follow along. I was talking about harassment directly from you. No wonder you claim not to have "witnessed" it. Gotta keep the act up, after all.
Have you ever harassed anyone on this website?
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Originally posted by @suzianneI'm not sure how to respond to this. But, as I said, just dig up a post of mine [maybe one you reported to the website but they declined to delete] that was 'harassment' in your view and that I should be "remorseful" about. If I am embarrassed by what I said, I will say so and apologize.
You can suggest whatever you want to me, and I will continue to laugh in your face at your "suggestions". Does anyone you know actually do any of the things you "suggest" to them? Save your "suggestions" for them.
Originally posted by @fmfResorting to form. Very good.
When I say I support you exercising your right to call things how you see them, I do mean it. My only complaint is that you would be a more interesting poster if you posted more on-topic stuff and spent less time with the angry screeds which are water off a duck's back to me.
You do love your little "micro-aggressions", don't you?
What would you do without adjectives (the nastier the better)?
Oh, do go on.
Originally posted by @fmfBwahahahahahaha!
I think you are mischaracterizing my posts. I don't and I haven't harassed you. You are free to think I have. But I disagree.
Have you ever harassed anyone on this website?
Stop, just stop, you're killing me.