Originally posted by whodey
OK so the definitions that I have listed previously would include the term trust. So tell us, at what point did you trust your wife? What evidence was provided for you to do so? Also, even though you must have evidence for being able to trust her, is such evidence proof that you can trust her? And perhaps most importantly of all, does she believe in the tooth ferry? 😛
Hmmm, I'll start with the last one.
No, she doesn't but she'll claim otherwise in front of our kids.
I'm not sure about the notion that I must have evidence to trust her. I suppose that's true, but I don't treat my relationship with her as if it were some sort of scientific experiment.
I guess the evidence is in the nature of that relationship.
My trust in her is a simple truth to me - I
know that I can trust her. How do I know this, you ask? Simply through the years of love that we've shared I suppose, although that's not going to be convincing to anyone outside the two of us.
At what point did I trust her?
Not sure on that one either.
Long term relationships are a bit like growing kids. Take a snapshot one year and then another one a year later, and the kid's bigger. But look at them from one day to the next and nothing seems to change, size wise.