@fmf saidYou’re misrepresenting my position. I’m a believer. In my case, and in the case of all believers, I don’t think it’s pointless at all.
I don't think I do.
The fact that I would NOT think trying to reconcile with a spouse, with the only two days we have left, was "pointless", reflects on my character.
And the fact that you WOULD think trying to reconcile with a spouse during those last two days was "pointless", reflects on yours.
I’m asking you, as an atheist, what the point is.
So far you have not given an answer.
@pb1022 saidA final hour of peace that surpasses all understanding, and being reconciled to one’s wife in the last hour of one’s life, seems to me to be a highly desirable state in which to die, even if there is no afterdeath.
Now who’s moving the goalposts?
I originally said for a believer *who did not have the hope of eternal life* but did have God’s help in daily living and the peace that passes all understanding to ask for God’s help in repairing a broken marriage would seem pointless because that believer could die an hour later.
That somehow morphed into me dehumanizing atheists.
@moonbus saidI personally don’t think it’s possible for an atheist to have or attain a peace that surpasses all understanding because such peace is supernatural and not dependent on circumstances.
A final hour of peace that surpasses all understanding, and being reconciled to one’s wife in the last hour of one’s life, seems to me to be a highly desirable state in which to die, even if there is no afterdeath.
But I get and appreciate your other point.
@pb1022 saidYou just haven't met the right person yet. You are quite right that this state is not dependent on circumstances; it is attained through hard work. Of all the people I have ever known in my life, the only ones who attained genuine and steady (not momentary) peace were Buddhist monks. (I spent some time in a monastery.) I have read some Christian authors who may have attained it (Thomas Merton, for example).
I personally don’t think it’s possible for an atheist to have or attain a peace that surpasses all understanding because such peace is supernatural and not dependent on circumstances.
But I get and appreciate your other point.