Originally posted by Rajk999
What do you think of this passage and how does it impact on your impression that we have to forgive others for being different. Here the Apostle John is saying not to pray for sinners who commit unforgivable sins ..
1John 5:14-17 And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: And if w ...[text shortened]... y that he shall pray for it. All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death.
My statement about "forgiving" people who are "different" was specifically regarding things that are not sins, just differences. That's why I put the word "forgive" in quotes.
An example - lets say you have an uncle who tells the same boring jokes and stories every time your family has a get-together. And you find this to be very annoying. And you have a very perky aunt who seems to absolutely love these jokes and stories and even eagerly urges him to tell them over and over. Which you find to be even more annoying.
Now - you can't really say your uncle or aunt are committing sins - it's just who they are. Nevertheless, you find yourself feeling very angry at these people. You want to change them and, like most people, they just WILL NOT change. And this anger is interfering with your relationship with them.
So in this case, "forgiveness" is accepting that your uncle is going to tell his jokes, and that your aunt is going to be perky - and even praying that God will give you the grace to actually enjoy these things.
I know that in my own life, its been an ongoing challenge to do this regarding certain people in my own family. But there is a certain peace you feel once you do "let go" of that need to change everyone. (Which is what you yourself reminded me about).