03 Mar '14 03:35>
If there were a god.
1. Why should I worship it?
2. Why would it be bothered?
1. Why should I worship it?
2. Why would it be bothered?
The post that was quoted here has been removedI am sure that you are not holding up marriages which have grown cold in mutual love as marriages to emulate.
Originally posted by wolfgang59Nobody can like or love or "worship" another person until first coming to know them... within the human or spiritual realm. Original Post Questions becomes moot points if the option of knowing someone is summarily declined.
If there were a god.
1. Why should I worship it?
2. Why would it be bothered?
Originally posted by sonshipA wife is an equal, one of my kind. A god is not.
If you are married why should you love your wife? Why be bothered ?
Originally posted by sonshipThere is no 'should' involved. Either you love your wife or your don't. You never love your wife because you 'should'- that is not love.
If you are married why should you love your wife? Why be bothered ?
Originally posted by twhitehead
There is no 'should' involved. Either you love your wife or your don't. You never love your wife because you 'should'- that is not love.
One might say that you shouldn't get married if you don't love someone, but many people do seem to get married without love and who are we to tell them they are wrong?
Originally posted by twhitehead
There is no 'should' involved. Either you love your wife or your don't. You never love your wife because you 'should'- that is not love.
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I would prefer to be in a marriage in which I could be loved and love with my whole heart. To be realistic, however, I know that both men and women often have to settle for other kinds of relationships.
In many, if not most, modern Western societies, isn't it *not* normal for a person to be married and stay loving and faithful to only one other person in one's lifetime?
There's an analogy between marriage and religious worship.
Many couples stay together even when there's no longer love.
Many people keep going through their accustomed rituals of worship
(like attending church) even when they have begun to lose their faith,
sometimes even when they have lost all their faith
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One objection that I have to your (Sonship) posts is that you seem to ignore or dismiss all evidence that does not conform to your positions. You (Sonship) seem to act as though 'giving your life over to the Lord Jesus' should be sufficient in itself to insure happiness in marriage.
I have enough experience of this world to know that's untrue.