Originally posted by Sam The Sham
Couldn't the psychologist have been sued by the patient if she had called the police, for breaking Dr/Patient privacy? Sounds like she was between a rock and a hard place.
no, the patient would not have a cause of action in that case.
in fact, the psychologist has an affirmative professional obligation to call the cops if she believes the patient is a danger to himself and in imminent danger.
the picture gets complex because the law also recognizes the psychology profession's use of "contracts" with suicidal patients.
there are well established guidelines, etc. with respect to these agreements, which we would have to show were handled improperly and negligently.
but I agree with your skepticism and that of others who kindly have commented here that the burden of showing negligence here is not an easy one.
I'm not even in favor of seeking the doctor's records using my powers as administrator of the estate, which I have the legal right to do even before filing any complaint and thus giving the Dr a reciprocal right.
It would upset the Dr, to be sure, to get such a demand. So if I wanted to cause her pain, that would do it.
I'm opposed to doing that -- I see no proper purpose there for me.
Nothing will change what is the case -- it is what it is.
No amount of revenge, no amount of pain caused the Dr financially or otherwise can help me; in fact it would only prolong and exacerbate my grief.
I take the Buddhist view that I must accept what has happened, with regret, but without malice. Malice would hurt me worse than the Dr.
I'll take Hesse's advice at the end of Siddhartha: I realize that I could have offered my life for his ten times over, died ten deaths, and still not change the path he had chosen. I don't have to like it -- but I should accept it and find a way to live with it.
the legal system is essential to solve certain kinds of problems. I believe, but do not insist, that it should only be resorted to in personal injury cases when there is a legitimate matter concerning compensation -- never for inflicting harm or revenge for the pain and suffering in a case as close as this one.