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The work guys and I where having a discussion about paying for a bit of slap and tickle (they are young, hence the topic after one guy came back from Amsterdam).

One view was that the guy always pay for it in one form or another, where that be actually buying a pro or taking a lady out for dinner etc.

My view was that if the lady for exmaple pays for dinner, does that still mean you pay for it ? The reply was yes, because you have to "emotional" support the other half.

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Originally posted by RSMA1234
The work guys and I where having a discussion about paying for a bit of slap and tickle (they are young, hence the topic after one guy came back from Amsterdam).

One view was that the guy always pay for it in one form or another, where that be actually buying a pro or taking a lady out for dinner etc.

My view was that if the lady for exmaple pays for ...[text shortened]... an you pay for it ? The reply was yes, because you have to "emotional" support the other half.
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Emotionally support your lady?

So all you get from the encounter is sex? Physical joy- no emotional support? It'sa two way thing I see your comment that they are young, but still they have mothers and sisters they must know women are to be respected.

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This attitiude towards women highlights the problem they have all over the globe. This is one of the countries where women aren't second class adn then they are thought of in such little regard that they are only for physical pleasure for a man. Tell your friends from me (please) that I wish they change their attitude and realise women are equal to them. Everytime they treat a woman as less or buys her affection they become less of a man.

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The problem is too many sluts, both guys and girls.

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Originally posted by yo its me
This attitiude towards women highlights the problem they have all over the globe. This is one of the countries where women aren't second class adn then they are thought of in such little regard that they are only for physical pleasure for a man. Tell your friends from me (please) that I wish they change their attitude and realise women are equal to them. Everytime they treat a woman as less or buys her affection they become less of a man.
Actually its the woman's attitude that needs to change...back. If you understood that you are there to suck and f*** and I wouldnt have to pay anything for it... this world would be a better place.

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Originally posted by epic0002
Actually its the woman's attitude that needs to change...back. If you understood that you are there to suck and f*** and I wouldnt have to pay anything for it... this world would be a better place.
You really think that?

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Originally posted by yo its me
You really think that?
Who knows - he's a wee bit childish and given to inflammatory comments in a bizzare bid to bolster his low sense of self worth.

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Originally posted by yo its me
This attitiude towards women highlights the problem they have all over the globe. This is one of the countries where women aren't second class adn then they are thought of in such little regard that they are only for physical pleasure for a man. Tell your friends from me (please) that I wish they change their attitude and realise women are equal to them. Everytime they treat a woman as less or buys her affection they become less of a man.
I don't think women are anything but equal to men.

If a woman is willing to accept money and a man is willing to pay, I don't see that their transaction denigrates women.

There are many more examples of women being treated as objects or looked down upon than prostitution between two adult and willing parties.

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Originally posted by yo its me
This attitiude towards women highlights the problem they have all over the globe. This is one of the countries where women aren't second class adn then they are thought of in such little regard that they are only for physical pleasure for a man. Tell your friends from me (please) that I wish they change their attitude and realise women are equal to them. Everytime they treat a woman as less or buys her affection they become less of a man.
No no no. Men are for physical pleasure for women.

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Originally posted by treetalk
Who knows - he's a wee bit childish and given to inflammatory comments in a bizzare bid to bolster his low sense of self worth.
Actually... I have a wife that knows her role and sucks dicc every night to bolster my childish low sense of self worth.

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Originally posted by treetalk
If a woman is willing to accept money and a man is willing to pay, I don't see that their transaction denigrates women.
I think it dose. It puts a price on her and every human being is priceless. It's different to paying someone for their time, she is selling herself and excepting the value put on her. Also most protitutes give the money that they worked so hard for to their pimp and then he values their worth by it.

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Originally posted by yo its me
I think it dose. It puts a price on her and every human being is priceless. It's different to paying someone for their time, she is selling herself and excepting the value put on her. Also most protitutes give the money that they worked so hard for to their pimp and then he values their worth by it.
She is not selling herself - she's receiving money for someone making use of her body. It's exactly the same as paying someone for their time.

If she were selling herself then why does the customer then leave her?

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Originally posted by RSMA1234
The work guys and I where having a discussion about paying for a bit of slap and tickle (they are young, hence the topic after one guy came back from Amsterdam).

One view was that the guy always pay for it in one form or another, where that be actually buying a pro or taking a lady out for dinner etc.

My view was that if the lady for exmaple pays for ...[text shortened]... an you pay for it ? The reply was yes, because you have to "emotional" support the other half.
You sound to be a complete ignoramus in relation to women. Grow up!

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Originally posted by quetzalcoatl3
You sound to be a complete ignoramus in relation to women. Grow up!
Well yes. One has only to look at where he hails from.

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Originally posted by yo its me
I think it dose. It puts a price on her and every human being is priceless. It's different to paying someone for their time, she is selling herself and excepting the value put on her. Also most protitutes give the money that they worked so hard for to their pimp and then he values their worth by it.
Prostitution is not slavery! None of the girls I used to drive around LA had pimps. They even asked me to pretend to be their pimp ("if I don't come down at the time we agreed and I don't call you, you go up to the door and knock real loud and say, 'I'm here for the girl', ok?" ), and they didn't pay me much at all.

They were also generally feminists and defended their right to live as they pleased with enthusiasm.

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