04 Nov '09 18:16>
In the United States, gay marriage has now been put to a popular vote in 31 states, all in the last few years. It's record?
0-31.
That's right.
0-31.
Chew on that for a moment.
0-31.
Yes, some of those states have been the Mississippis and Arkansas of the World. But other have been Ohio, California, Michigan and now Maine, all Obama states.
Why?
Well, there are many theories; but here's mine: It's the rhetoric, stupid.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091104/ap_on_an/us_gay_marriage_analysis
"Today's heartbreaking defeat unfortunately shows that lies and fear can still win at the ballot box," said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.
Yes, this is just one example. But anyone following the debate in the US knows that what I'm about to say is true: The rhetoric out of the pro-same sex marriage camp is generally about how their opponents are ignorant bigots or hatemongers or fearmongers or whatever. If you don't believe me, Google "proposition 8."
In every other type of election, the losing side will say something like "Congratulations to the other side. the people have spoken. We have to redouble our efforts to get out our message blah blah blah." When gay marriage loses an election, its proponents say, "You're a bunch of ignorant hatemongers."
Folks, let me tell you something about voters: They don't like being called gullible bigots. The majority of people were obviously at one point against same sex marriage. Ergo, to win, you need to change people's minds. The way to change people's minds is not to call them ignorant bigots. The way to change people's minds is to calmly convince them why you are right.
time for some introspection on the part of the gay marriage movement, IMHO. They might win eventually anyway; but it will happen faster if they take my advice. Book it.
0-31.
That's right.
0-31.
Chew on that for a moment.
0-31.
Yes, some of those states have been the Mississippis and Arkansas of the World. But other have been Ohio, California, Michigan and now Maine, all Obama states.
Why?
Well, there are many theories; but here's mine: It's the rhetoric, stupid.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091104/ap_on_an/us_gay_marriage_analysis
"Today's heartbreaking defeat unfortunately shows that lies and fear can still win at the ballot box," said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.
Yes, this is just one example. But anyone following the debate in the US knows that what I'm about to say is true: The rhetoric out of the pro-same sex marriage camp is generally about how their opponents are ignorant bigots or hatemongers or fearmongers or whatever. If you don't believe me, Google "proposition 8."
In every other type of election, the losing side will say something like "Congratulations to the other side. the people have spoken. We have to redouble our efforts to get out our message blah blah blah." When gay marriage loses an election, its proponents say, "You're a bunch of ignorant hatemongers."
Folks, let me tell you something about voters: They don't like being called gullible bigots. The majority of people were obviously at one point against same sex marriage. Ergo, to win, you need to change people's minds. The way to change people's minds is not to call them ignorant bigots. The way to change people's minds is to calmly convince them why you are right.
time for some introspection on the part of the gay marriage movement, IMHO. They might win eventually anyway; but it will happen faster if they take my advice. Book it.