I have noticed l;ately alot of commentsfrom men and women regarding married couple's sexual relationships. From what I am hearinf\g, it seems alot of wives refuse to do the "fun" sex things. They only want your basic missionary style sex act. Is this true? If so, WHY?????
I would think married couples would have a field day doing everything there is to do out there!!!! I certainly will when ALex and I marry.
I agree! It seems like the 'fun' goes out and it's all 'duty' from then on.
I've reviewed my feelings on this and think that maybe we just 'want it all'. If you have a blonde, petite woman- you'll soon want a redhead Amazon. The flavor-of-the-week is the theme.
I can't wait until I have my own holodeck.
Originally posted by elvendreamgirlThis is absolutely true. I don't know why.
I have noticed l;ately alot of commentsfrom men and women regarding married couple's sexual relationships. From what I am hearinf\g, it seems alot of wives refuse to do the "fun" sex things. They only want your basic missionary style sex act. Is this true? If so, WHY?????
I would think married couples would have a field day doing everything there is to do out there!!!! I certainly will when ALex and I marry.
If you ever find the answer please tell my wife immediately.
Been doing missinary style ,in the bedroom only, for years and she can't figure out why I'd rather surf porn then cuddle.
Originally posted by elvendreamgirlI find this to be totally un-true. 11 years and it keeps getting better.
I have noticed l;ately alot of commentsfrom men and women regarding married couple's sexual relationships. From what I am hearinf\g, it seems alot of wives refuse to do the "fun" sex things. They only want your basic missionary style sex act. Is this true? If so, WHY?????
I would think married couples would have a field day doing everything there is to do out there!!!! I certainly will when ALex and I marry.
Mike
I do know of other coulples who 'Lose' interest, why this happens I don't know. It is probobly because the kids and responsibily get to them. I don't know. Sex is an extremely important part of marriage I think. It is not the most important part, but no less important than others. Intamacy is very important, and helps to keep you close. Some people lose sight of this. My wife was telling me about couples who rarely do. I can only tell it from this womans perspective, because it was this wifes perspective. She said it was something to be 'done with' wich tells me thier are other problems underlying. I'm glad my wife does not think of me like that.
Mike
females go thro stages, once they pass they virginity . to start they want it everywhere and allways, then homeing instinct creeps in and after the first child men can go stuff themselves, untill later when they get older back comes the drive more than before, then nature changes wemen . p.s. girl men start out with more than they can give, with a flexable 99% body as later and later they achive a 1% flexable body, criminal isnt it
My wife still keeps it "fun." I do concede that after 4 years of marriage we no longer have sex so often, but we are a far cry from "missionary style only." I don't know why some people (male or female) do not feel comfortable experimenting. I think it keeps things exciting.
I also agree with the flavor of the week comment. I think it's only natural for the eye to wander and the mind to wonder. Or maybe it's the "eye to wonder" and the "mind to wander"?
Originally posted by rapalla7i agree too. sarah asked a reasonable and interesting question.
Michelle,
You are right. Thier is no reason that this topic cannot be discussed maturly, sans stereo types.
Mike
there is no reason for it to degenerate.
i think your answer is an excellent one too.
spouseship doesn't need to fall prey to stereotypes.
one wonders to what extent the stereotypes really are true.
does the propaganda reflect the action, or does it actually shape it?
in friendship,
prad
Originally posted by pradtfWell, Prad, to what extent are the stereotypes true?
i agree too. sarah asked a reasonable and interesting question.
there is no reason for it to degenerate.
i think your answer is an excellent one too.
spouseship doesn't need to fall prey to stereotypes.
one wonders to what extent the stereotypes really are true.
does the propaganda reflect the action, or does it actually shape it?
in friendship,
prad