Originally posted by asromacalcioshame
I've lost interest for the sake of my sanity. Learned to be strong. What stops me is that I cannot believe people like me in that way, and I give it off strongly in my energy. Some people have magentic sex appeal, even if they're not very attractive. I'm the total opposite (and also not very attractive to top it all). But every nice woman you see you wo Now I'm leaving Italy and going to teach in Central Asia she hasn't spoken to me since.
Originally posted by asromacalciosob sob cry sob sob denial DENIAL
Could, or do, you live without sex?
I have for a very long time, so long I won't even post it in the forum.
And does / did it bother you? Did your standards go down or did you get even fussier?
And have you lost the belief that anybody will ever want you again?
Just curious.
Originally posted by asromacalcioARE YOU A CELEBRITY?
Could, or do, you live without sex?
I have for a very long time, so long I won't even post it in the forum.
And does / did it bother you? Did your standards go down or did you get even fussier?
And have you lost the belief that anybody will ever want you again?
Just curious.
Originally posted by mokkotruely amazing how a woman can get to your age/experience and still believe all utter crap that your elementary school religious teacher taught you..
I have chosen not to have sex since the breakup of my last relationship. (Been awhile!) I normally like to put a couple years between relationships as it assures the healing of old wounds and limits any baggage coming into something new.
It doesn't bother me in the least and I think my standards have become more rigid in who I decide to spend my time with. ...[text shortened]... a great amount of time and energy proving his worth.
You don't miss what you don't have.
Originally posted by mokkoMaybe it is easier to have someone there to help heal your old wounds? My girlfriend who i love dearly has serious wounds, but we are helping each other overcome these and it brings us closer together.
I have chosen not to have sex since the breakup of my last relationship. (Been awhile!) I normally like to put a couple years between relationships as it assures the healing of old wounds and limits any baggage coming into something new.
Originally posted by EsotericI guess it's easier if you aren't stong enough to face your own emotions.
Maybe it is easier to have someone there to help heal your old wounds? My girlfriend who i love dearly has serious wounds, but we are helping each other overcome these and it brings us closer together.
Too many people I know fear being alone and undesired so much that they'll be with anybody. People settle for alot less than they deserve just to ease the pain.
It works for most people but for some of us it doesn't help with the healing process at all. It only prolongs it. Sex doesn't solve problems more than it creates them.