Originally posted by asromacalcioSo, is a shag just a shag?
Could, or do, you live without sex?
I have for a very long time, so long I won't even post it in the forum.
And does / did it bother you? Did your standards go down or did you get even fussier?
And have you lost the belief that anybody will ever want you again?
Just curious.
Is it just a bit of fun? If so, why should it be avoided? And if not, why do some people enjoy it?
Hey, I heard you got proposed to, are you getting married soon...? Shags on demand then, then (except for the periodicals, when you'll need to find an American woman)...
Originally posted by mokkoNot only is this true, I think for relationships to actually mean something it HAS to be true, but it's another area where I come undone.
The ones who don't only want sex and will quickly move on. Those who are truly interested will spend a great amount of time and energy proving his worth.
You don't miss what you don't have.
I have this mindset that people don't fancy me. It's not just an opinion it's an inherent belief. The longer any courtship is the more time I have to start doubting, to read something negative into normal situations. Last failed attempt to meet somebody was when she didn't have time to come for a pizza with me that night. I just took it to mean bye bye, my mind wouldn't have it any other way.
So for me if things don't happen quickly I lose what shread of confidence I had and nothing happens at all. But then when did things ever happen quickly for me?
Originally posted by c99uxIt will be noted that in spite of my predicament the wedding suggestion has been categorically dismissed.
So, is a shag just a shag?
Is it just a bit of fun? If so, why should it be avoided? And if not, why do some people enjoy it?
Hey, I heard you got proposed to, are you getting married soon...? Shags on demand then, then (except for the periodicals, when you'll need to find an American woman)...
No amount of deprivation and loneliness is going to lower my standards 😏
Originally posted by asromacalcioDont worry. YOu can always make yourself HAPPY...self indulge...
It will be noted that in spite of my predicament the wedding suggestion has been categorically dismissed.
No amount of deprivation and loneliness is going to lower my standards 😏
makin a scene with a magazine as it were...