Originally posted by mokkoWhat does this say to me?
But when a man has courage enough to approach a woman with children in tow at a grocery store and ask if it would be possible to get to know each other over dinner....now that just takes courage and a little bit more. Maybe a tad bit of insanity as well 😕
I'm guessing that a woman with 6 or 7 sprogs in tow, like yourself, doesn't look very single. It wouldn't be unusual for a married woman to go shopping with kids/without hubby.
So he doesn't really care about commitment. Most people I know wouldn't enquire about people who look like they're in a relationship.
How's it going to end? He's going to use all of his lothario skills to seduce you into bed (yours). Continuing from the first night, this will be a nightly thing for a week, then slowly slipping to bi-nightly, and finally, you'll be waiting by the phone for his once a week visit. You'll try ringing him, but he never answers Tuesdays, Wednesdays or Thursdays.
He'll tell you he is away with work, possibly being a sercret CIA operative or something like this.
You'll get suspicious (and a little bit pregnant). Finally, you'll follow him one Wednesday night, and find him taking his wife out for dinner. You'll end up with an arrest warrant on your head after you claw one of his eyes out. You'll end up packing up all the kids that night, and trying to skip town by heading south. Way south. You'll end up in Flint, Michigan. You find a friendly motel owner who will allow you to briefly use the internet for a small favour.
You log onto RHP, and message Arrakis.
I only see the story getting more desperate from there. Don't do it.
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Originally posted by mokkoNot a very good basis for a lifelong commitment though, is it?
A gentleman would easily recognise a woman of virtue and patiently put aside his animalistic needs, propose marriage and reap his rewards through honour.
"Why did you propose?"
"Uhh, I dunno. Only way I could get a shag."
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Originally posted by mokkoWell if you go, and he turns out to be okay, don't ever let him read your RHP profile.
I just accepted. Not sure if I'd even have the nerve to actually go. I haven't dated in a very long time. I'm not sure I even know how anymore?
It would scare him off quicker than you can say "no sex before marriage!"