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Originally posted by Very Rusty
It will not be too much longer when the child will hit her back, and after awhile there will be no more hitting because the kid will be stronger!

I just hope the kids pops her hard enough so she knows what it feels like.
Jesus...

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Originally posted by Crowley
Jesus...
Jesus cutting a witch.

Now that's what it feels like!

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
Taking a toy away is a privilege lost not abuse.

Hitting is abuse, & it really is that simple.

There is never a good reason to hit your child!
You are talking physical abuse
There are more kinds of abuse than just physical.

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Originally posted by Crowley
I've smacked her hand after she tried to swing the cat around by its' tail and once when she let go of my hand and tried to run into the road at her school.

These are scenarios I have no sense of humour about and needed immediate action.

Anyway, I'm out. Rusty is stinking yet another thread up and this laptop doesn't have gbaway on, so I have to see his posts now.
Someday you may understand why hitting is wrong. Your child will soon be hitting other children..Swinging the cat is probably away for her to vent her anger, as she can't swing you around. You stop to think about that?

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
It will not be too much longer when the child will hit her back, and after awhile there will be no more hitting because the kid will be stronger!

I just hope the kids pops her hard enough so she knows what it feels like.
Why did I ever say I agreed with you on anything? 😞

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
You are talking physical abuse
There are more kinds of abuse than just physical.

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There is not lingering affects of taking away a teddy bear for 10 minutes, there is smacking a child, and as you can see from this thread, it goes on from generation to generation, because they learn smacking is the thing to do, by THEIR PARENTS.

How many story's have you heard I am so emotionally scared because I had a toy taken from me as a child?

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Originally posted by Starrman
Why did I ever say I agreed with you on anything? 😞
Ha!

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
There is not lingering affects of taking away a teddy bear for 10 minutes, there is smacking a child, and as you can see from this thread, it goes on from generation to generation, because they learn smacking is the thing to do, by THEIR PARENTS.

How many story's have you heard I am so emotionally scared because I had a toy taken from me as a child?
Why you keep saying "smack"?

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
There is not lingering affects of taking away a teddy bear for 10 minutes, there is smacking a child
Can you prove this?

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
Why you keep saying "smack"?

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It isn't smacking (Hit) same thing no?

Do you think the spanking or the hits on the hand are ever going to stop? Seriously? This all these parents understand on how to handle problems with their children.

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Originally posted by Crowley
Can you prove this?
Listen, all you are trying to do is make excuses why you hit your kid.

That is the only way you see to solve the problem, when does the hitting stop Crowley, WHEN?

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Originally posted by Starrman
Why did I ever say I agreed with you on anything? 😞
Probably because for a few minutes you found a backbone?

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Originally posted by Very Rusty
Probably because for a few minutes you found a backbone?
No, because I thought for once you had a standpoint which I could fit on. Alas, you climbed the crazy mountain and there's only room for one at the top.

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Originally posted by Starrman
No, because I thought for once you had a standpoint which I could fit on. Alas, you climbed the crazy mountain and there's only room for one at the top.
I will tell you who is on the top of the mountain, The Kids they are the future.

If what I say stops just one person from using corporal punishment on their child, who may have been thinking of it. I would say it was well worth it.( It is most likely to late for the others)

Do you think the spanking or hitting stops at a certain age, it doesn't. It will stop when the child is big enough to hit back, and it becomes a REAL physical confrontation. Or leaves the household.

I have taken in kids in who were rescued by the social service department. Some of the stories would bring the hardest ass to tears. It all starts out with the cuffing & spanking, sadly enough.

I wouldn't have even got involved in this if Crowley hadn't started bad mouthing me, but now I am glad I did!

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Originally posted by Phlabibit
A pop on the bottom is physical abuse.
Taking a toy or freedom and privileges is emotional abuse.

If we must keep throwing that word 'abuse' around.
ultimately all abuse is emotional abuse

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