Originally posted by rmacken
You must be joking, I have just had a massive arguement with her when I picked the kids up.
Let me explain this to you Mackie. You are her whipping boy until the court order says you aren't any longer. Get used to it. The best thing you can do is to channel your anger into something else. All it will do is age you rapidly if you don't get rid of it. Just think how much better off you are now, and think of the kids. Don't ever, and I mean ever, speak poorly of their Mother to them (even though you know better). Kids are extremely sharp and see things you don't think they can. It will benefit you many years from now if you follow this advice. Trust me on this. I can recommend you some books on the topic if you like, and I will be happy to share personal experience with you if you like. Good luck to you. The first couple of years will be the most difficult. I strongly encourage you to play golf. Then, every time you ex pisses you off, go out and hit golf balls. I improved my driving distance nearly 50 yards using one simple technique...."picture your ex-wife's face on the golf ball as it lays on the tee". Works like a champ.
