I'm very very confused...

Originally posted by rubberjaw30
yeah, but i've forgotten most of it...
hold on
i'll read it

EDIT: all i can get out of this is that you got it on with a dude and now you don't know what to do
i'd find the nearest hooker and have her straighten me out if I were you in that situation, but that's just me

No, not that, not that at all.

I'm just a little unsure about where I stand, which team part of me wants to bat for; it's like I definitely want to bat for the girl's team (is that right? I mean I want to date girls); but part of me, i'd say something like 15-20%, is unsure, or maybe just outright gay (😕), and this doesn't sit well with me.

Originally posted by Bad wolf
No, not that, not that at all.

I'm just a little unsure about where I stand, which team part of me wants to bat for; it's like I definitely want to bat for the girl's team (is that right? I mean I want to date girls); but part of me, i'd say something like 15-20%, is unsure, or maybe just outright gay (😕), and this doesn't sit well with me.

How old are you? You are probably just bi-curious, I know a lot of people like that....I would try dating both and see who you like best.

Originally posted by Raven69
How old are you? You are probably just bi-curious, I know a lot of people like that....I would try dating both and see who you like best.

Hmm....
I'm only 16 at the moment, I haven't dated many girls so far...
edit: oh, and to be clear, no guys either.

Originally posted by Bad wolf
Hmm....
I'm only 16 at the moment, I haven't dated many girls so far...
edit: oh, and to be clear, no guys either.

Maybe the 15-20% of you is just frightened of rejection by girls, so frightened you might even consider guys... Don't worry, these things come naturally... you'll soon find out... probably when the first short skirts answer the call of spring 😀.

Originally posted by Bad wolf
Hmm....
I'm only 16 at the moment, I haven't dated many girls so far...
edit: oh, and to be clear, no guys either.

i haven't dated any (of either gender, for clarification)
apparently, i'm a jackass and extremely unpleasant to be around
but, of late, i have had a few girls at school tell me i'm hot
which feels great...

Originally posted by rubberjaw30
i haven't dated any (of either gender, for clarification)
apparently, i'm a jackass and extremely unpleasant to be around
but, of late, i have had a few girls at school tell me i'm hot
which feels great...

Well, I'll be honest with you, one girlfriend, and it wasn't for a very long...

Have you asked any girls out yet?

Originally posted by Bad wolf
Well, I'll be honest with you, one girlfriend, and it wasn't for a very long...

Have you asked any girls out yet?

nah, fear of rejection i think it is, but as far as you're concerned, i'm gay right?
or at least that's the way you're acting...
so it doesn't effing matter what i say

Originally posted by rubberjaw30
nah, fear of rejection i think it is, but as far as you're concerned, i'm gay right?
or at least that's the way you're acting...
so it doesn't effing matter what i say

Sorry, I don't think you're gay, but I don't think it would matter anyway.


Fear of rejection will continue to haunt you unless you try; I asked a girl out about two months before Christmas, the rejection was awful because I seriously liked her, but I got over her (I like to think 😕).

Originally posted by Bad wolf
Sorry, I don't think you're gay, but I don't think it would matter anyway.


Fear of rejection will continue to haunt you unless you try; I asked a girl out about two months before Christmas, the rejection was awful because I seriously liked her, but I got over her (I like to think 😕).

but in all honesty, i really don't want a girlfriend...
too much commitment...
i just want to be a badass
apparently, i'm already the guy everyone would like to get drunk with...
i'd like a girl, but not the time devotion that comes with her, if you see what I mean

Originally posted by rubberjaw30
but in all honesty, i really don't want a girlfriend...
too much commitment...
i just want to be a badass
apparently, i'm already the guy everyone would like to get drunk with...
i'd like a girl, but not the time devotion that comes with her, if you see what I mean

You want to be a bad ass?
Get yourself a leather jacket and grow a moustache, then go singing YMCA in a gay bar; at least then someone will buy you a drink.

Originally posted by Bad wolf
You want to be a bad ass?
Get yourself a leather jacket and grow a moustache, then go singing YMCA in a gay bar; at least then someone will buy you a drink.

i already have a leather jacket and a mustache...
but i'm not singing a gay song in a gay bar
ain't my style, you dig?

Originally posted by Bad wolf
No, not that, not that at all.

I'm just a little unsure about where I stand, which team part of me wants to bat for; it's like I definitely want to bat for the girl's team (is that right? I mean I want to date girls); but part of me, i'd say something like 15-20%, is unsure, or maybe just outright gay (😕), and this doesn't sit well with me.

It's not unusual to be questioning at your age. And it's not unusual to have a limited number of relationships either (especially if you play chess 😉). It's not a bad thing though, it just means you have more time to find out what you want in a partner and more time to mature for your future ones, which will probably make them more serious. And instead of looking at girl turning you down as rejection, look at is as an opportunity to learn how to improve yourself. If you're comfortable enough with her, sit down and ask her what you could do to improve your chances. On the other hand, you just might not be her type.

But hey, her loss. 😉

Originally posted by Remora91
It's not unusual to be questioning at your age. And it's not unusual to have a limited number of relationships either (especially if you play chess 😉). It's not a bad thing though, it just means you have more time to find out what you want in a partner and more time to mature for your future ones, which will probably make them more serious. And instead of ...[text shortened]... ve your chances. On the other hand, you just might not be her type.

But hey, her loss. 😉

It's not unusual to be questioning at your age. And it's not unusual to have a limited number of relationships either (especially if you play chess 😉). It's not a bad thing though, it just means you have more time to find out what you want in a partner and more time to mature for your future ones, which will probably make them more serious.

- Indeed, I do sometimes try to wonder what position I will be in 10 years from now (with relationships), and how I'd get there; I just seem to draw a blank. 😕

If you're comfortable enough with her, sit down and ask her what you could do to improve your chances. On the other hand, you just might not be her type.
But hey, her loss. 😉

- Well, I'm not comfortable with this idea so no I guess, nothing will change my mind I'm afraid

Originally posted by Bad wolf
[b]It's not unusual to be questioning at your age. And it's not unusual to have a limited number of relationships either (especially if you play chess 😉). It's not a bad thing though, it just means you have more time to find out what you want in a partner and more time to mature for your future ones, which will probably make them more serious.

- Ind ...[text shortened]... I'm not comfortable with this idea so no I guess, nothing will change my mind I'm afraid[/b]

as one wise person once told me whom i have utmost respect for:
"kid, listen. you're sixteen years old. f*** the future, enjoy the now. who cares if you ever get married or get a college degree? it's important that, come what may, you had a hell of a time getting there. screw your parents if they're holding you down. now quit trying to figure it all and go have some fun."
i guess that applies to you...
screw worrying about it...
pee on it and deal with what the future brings when it comes...
I hope what he said means anything to you... it sure did for me when i was in a deep crap hole of trouble...